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by Heartbrokenmom1606
Thu Sep 20, 2018 8:27 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Fought for my son and won.
Replies: 3
Views: 2612

Fought for my son and won.

Hi I have posted on here a few times in regards to my son being in the care of my L.A due to myself and partner being in a 'pool of perpitrators'. Just wanted to update that my son is coming home on the 1st of October full time. Our contact is currently at the family home now unsupervised. So i just...
by Heartbrokenmom1606
Sun Aug 19, 2018 10:09 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: Removal at birth need advice
Replies: 21
Views: 13246

Re: Removal at birth need advice

Firstly i am literally breaking my heart for you right now. I completely understand how much it breaks you physically, mentally and emotionally! I actually hated being alive when he was took from me i had to seek help as my depression reared its ugly head again. It was exactly the same with me hun n...
by Heartbrokenmom1606
Thu Aug 16, 2018 1:51 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: INDEPENDENT SOCIAL WORK ASSESSMENT
Replies: 2
Views: 6317

Re: INDEPENDENT SOCIAL WORK ASSESSMENT

I know why we have the assessments. The local authority's assessments were flawed and we fought to get an independent assessment. I just wanted some advice from others who have had an ISW involved and whether it's helped their cases as I am hoping and praying these assessments will bring my son home...
by Heartbrokenmom1606
Sat Aug 11, 2018 12:26 am
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: INDEPENDENT SOCIAL WORK ASSESSMENT
Replies: 2
Views: 6317

INDEPENDENT SOCIAL WORK ASSESSMENT

Hi I was wondering if anyone had any knowledge on ISW assessments. My son has been under an ICO for 17 weeks due to my previous children being removed and myself, my partner and my brother being left in the pool of perpitrators 7 years ago. I just need some advice as to whether one of these independ...
by Heartbrokenmom1606
Mon Aug 06, 2018 10:57 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: Removal at birth need advice
Replies: 21
Views: 13246

Re: Removal at birth need advice

If they try to refuse u breastfeeding say you will be putting a claim in against his human rights. I have done so much research into all of this that's all I do with my spare time. They even put into their reports that I am apparently too scripted because I am self taught as they refused any courses...
by Heartbrokenmom1606
Mon Aug 06, 2018 10:51 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: Removal at birth need advice
Replies: 21
Views: 13246

Re: Removal at birth need advice

We have been told exactly the same crappy excuses. That It's not our parenting that is the problem. It's all based on probabilities of risk. All they need is a 51% probability and they can take every child you ever have away. It breaks my heart that we have to go through this yet I know many terribl...
by Heartbrokenmom1606
Mon Jul 30, 2018 8:41 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: Removal at birth need advice
Replies: 21
Views: 13246

Re: Removal at birth need advice

So i am still waiting for my assessment to begin. It's been 6 weeks since we was granted an ISW in court I got the call today to say it will be starting next Tuesday. Even an ISW who is getting £50 per hour can't stick to the timeframe it's a joke. Now my social worker is saying she regrets putting ...
by Heartbrokenmom1606
Fri May 11, 2018 10:54 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Negative risk assessment
Replies: 1
Views: 1693

Negative risk assessment

Does anyone know if i have a negative risk assessment if I would be able to get my son back from foster Care? He is on an ICO atm we are due back in court the end of the month. The social worker hates me and I feel she had judged me on past before even giving me a chance. She's tried to turn all my ...
by Heartbrokenmom1606
Wed Apr 25, 2018 5:08 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Parenting assessment
Replies: 1
Views: 2527

Parenting assessment

Hi, I just wanted to know what other agencies can a parenting assessor contact as we have just started our assessments and had to agree to other agencies being contacted. My son is under an ICO and we are currently fighting to have him returned home after removal at birth. I had 3 previous children ...
by Heartbrokenmom1606
Fri Apr 13, 2018 12:52 pm
Forum: Getting your voice heard
Topic: Removal at birth need advice
Replies: 2
Views: 3694

Removal at birth need advice

Bit of a long post but I don't know where to turn so please help and please no judgment! Basically in 2011 I had care of my 3 children. I was in a bad relationship, they were on a child protection plan due to concerns of neglect, myself not engaging with services. I was severely depressed but didn't...