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by tryingtoheal
Sat Jan 25, 2020 7:02 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: my story and advice
Replies: 23
Views: 11877

Re: my story and advice

my children are simply being brainwashed. no contact order can force the issue, after 1000 days, I still dont hear from them and yet the mother continues to have utter control. A court cant force anything, particularly if the kids are saying they dont want to see me. Everyone says they will want to ...
by tryingtoheal
Thu Jan 09, 2020 4:17 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: my story and advice
Replies: 23
Views: 11877

Re: my story and advice

Hi the court order stated supervised contact when my daughter was ready, something I agreed to and the judge felt it was mature, with my son, it was for when he wanted. Surely with no restrictions now in place, albeit of course there would be historical concern and risk to be managed, that my childr...
by tryingtoheal
Wed Dec 11, 2019 10:16 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: my story and advice
Replies: 23
Views: 11877

Re: my story and advice

So my update is as of the 11th December, I am free of any registration and was so from the 3rd Nov 19. however its now 976 days since I last saw my children, my ex updates me quarterly and if anything is doing a tick box court direction of stating how well the children are and how much they make her...
by tryingtoheal
Wed May 01, 2019 11:09 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: my story and advice
Replies: 23
Views: 11877

Re: my story and advice

Hi, well still no contact with my children. I tried having contact with Fathers for families, was initially given a number for Bristol office but sadly after ringing and emailing half a dozen times I have given up on them wanting to know. I continue to write and send cards/gifts to my kids. My ex ha...
by tryingtoheal
Tue Dec 04, 2018 4:04 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: my story and advice
Replies: 23
Views: 11877

Re: my story and advice

thank you, thats really encouraging and helpful advice, I had a very strong bond with both my kids, my son states he is too angry to want to have contact, even though I did nothing to him other than for him to see my ex and me end our marriage in a bad way. yet he states it was an incident where I t...
by tryingtoheal
Mon Dec 03, 2018 9:32 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: my story and advice
Replies: 23
Views: 11877

Re: my story and advice

I agree with all you say, I have tried so hard and dont try to minimise my offence, far from it, I take complete responsibility, I shouldnt have done what i did and i am paying the price for an ex who was already trying to control and manipulate my kids, together with her family, who funnily enough ...
by tryingtoheal
Mon Dec 03, 2018 7:12 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: my story and advice
Replies: 23
Views: 11877

Re: my story and advice

Well had school meeting, they confirmed it was not a parents evening I missed and was back when my daughter first started and didn't have my contact details. They confirmed they meet my daughter weekly and ask how she is feeling and if she wants to talk about anything.....they did suggest I seek adv...
by tryingtoheal
Sun Dec 02, 2018 12:31 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: my story and advice
Replies: 23
Views: 11877

Re: my story and advice

So I am seeing the school Monday to discuss my daughters comments and the "attitude" now of not wanting to see me. I have found out from the ex that the school have not invited me to parents evening recently? is this fair? I thought schools had to be fair and non judgmental. I am gutted that its now...
by tryingtoheal
Sun Dec 02, 2018 12:26 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: my story and advice
Replies: 23
Views: 11877

Re: my story and advice

So I am seeing the school Monday to discuss my daughters comments and the "attitude" now of not wanting to see me. I have found out from the ex that the school have not invited me to parents evening recently? is this fair? I thought schools had to be fair and non judgmental. I am gutted that its now...
by tryingtoheal
Thu Nov 22, 2018 10:39 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: my story and advice
Replies: 23
Views: 11877

Re: my story and advice

Hello, so after some months a court order was agreed and I am to have contact with my daughter when she is ready. I did not state any timeframe as I did not want to pressure my daughter into a deadline. The judge felt I was mature in approach, I hold no grudges with my ex as its not her fault I plac...