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by k1212
Thu Jul 12, 2018 1:37 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: Removal at birth need advice
Replies: 18
Views: 6487

Re: Removal at birth need advice

did they say to u that would have a better chance of keeping baby with you if you werent with your partner who is also in the pool with you? were u only told when u went into labour that the baby wouldnt come home with you, this is what im worried about.they havent even started my assesment yet and ...
by k1212
Mon Jul 02, 2018 1:38 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: Removal at birth need advice
Replies: 18
Views: 6487

Re: Removal at birth need advice

please let me know how you both get on im currently in a similar situation im in a 'pool' for bruising on my child in 2012 and am nearly 5 months pregnant and waited for social services to do an assessment and am absolutely terrified they have ruined my pregnancy and every day im filled with anxiety...
by k1212
Thu Apr 19, 2018 2:55 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: My child's father had findings made agaisnt him nai...taking me to court now for supervision order.
Replies: 2
Views: 2846

Re: My child's father had findings made agaisnt him nai...taking me to court now for supervision order.

i have a daughter who had non accidental injuries and i was put in the pool of perpatrators and i still see my daughter every other weekend (progressing to weekly) unsupervised so that should not mean that he can not see his children unless he was the only perpatrator, do you know how serious the in...
by k1212
Fri Apr 13, 2018 4:54 pm
Forum: Getting your voice heard
Topic: Removal at birth need advice
Replies: 2
Views: 2296

Re: Removal at birth need advice

Hi i wish i could offer you some peace but all i can say is i know how u feel and what its like to 'remain in the pool of perpetrators' i too have been too scared to have any more children, i will pray for you. Please let me know how u get on i will be thinking of you
by k1212
Tue Apr 03, 2018 10:06 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: will i ever be allowed to keep my baby
Replies: 10
Views: 4636

Re: will i ever be allowed to keep my baby

wow thats lovely to read and sounds so positive, keep your head up your doing everything right im so happy for you i hope everything works out xxx
by k1212
Mon Mar 26, 2018 12:48 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: will i ever be allowed to keep my baby
Replies: 10
Views: 4636

Re: will i ever be allowed to keep my baby

My heart breaks for you it really does, is there no way u can go in a mother and baby unit? or live in a foster home with your baby together, iv spoken to a few people that have been given that option and theyre watched all the time and have to do assesments it doesnt sound nice but a few pf them ha...
by k1212
Tue Mar 20, 2018 1:46 pm
Forum: Trying to get help for your child?
Topic: Please give me advice for my child who lives with her dad.
Replies: 1
Views: 2251

Please give me advice for my child who lives with her dad.

Im looking for advice as i would like an honest opinion on what i can do or just to know if others think i am over reacting or if i should be concerned. My daughter lives with her dad, she is 6 and a half, she has lived with her dad since 2013. I have my daughter every other saturday and every other...
by k1212
Tue Mar 20, 2018 1:43 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: will i ever be allowed to keep my baby
Replies: 10
Views: 4636

Re: will i ever be allowed to keep my baby

any updates? how are doing? xx
by k1212
Tue Mar 20, 2018 1:39 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: will i get them back
Replies: 4
Views: 3242

Re: will i get them back

Hi, this might not be much help but i have been in a similar situation and i know the pain youre feeling. When my daughter was 11months old i rushed her to the docs as she had purple marks on her face, i was arrested and so was my boyfriend at the time (not babys dad) a few days after he was arreste...
by k1212
Wed Feb 14, 2018 5:51 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Please help me, any advice welcome no negative comments please
Replies: 8
Views: 2545

Re: Please help me, any advice welcome no negative comments please

I described them as domestic incidents as thats what the social services called them on my paperwork. Im not deflecting blame, i dont think he was in the wrong to take my keys given the situation. I was the one that caused the problem, i hate the fact that if something happens between a man and a wo...