Hi Nicenana

Of course you can pm me, we’ve been dealing with SS for almost two years for a non custodial sentence. Unfortunately I’ve had practice with them

Hi Toaie I’m so sorry you’re going through this. You sound like an intelligent well educated, strong woman who knows what she is doing! I feel for you both. It’s hard to know what the best thing is to do regarding your relationship. I’d say if you can get over him and move on do so. If you cannot be...

Oh PSDIm so sorry too. You are saying what the SE should be saying! That your son can say his feelings and share them to hope that they may be acted on! That is not manipulation but encouragement to let his feeling be made known. Further revelations since Tuesday. Conference was mid week staying on ...

Hi all. Our journey has just got a lot tougher. It feels like war atm. This week is pretty intense with Core group review yesterday, PLO meeting today that was a disaster and I’ve barely stopped crying since. My second session with Lucy Faithfull tomorrow which I’m looking forward to, Child protecti...

Ho again, thanks I agree with how they should be taking the view regarding his own children! Only update to say I spoke to the police officer myself to explain that I had asked husband to ask probation officer why it was refused following the discussion with SW. she unbelievably emailed the police o...

Great reply PSD! Have you been on the stopso forum? I think you will find it interesting I’ve certainly learnt a lot more through it. There’s one lady in particular who is v knowledgeable. Her husband was charged with possession of iioc and bailed home before being taken to prison for a year. He was...

I’m not sure if I am allowed to share a link on here but I came across these guidelines and they have been very informative. I have shared them with my SW and his Manager who gave no reply but my LA as far as I am aware has no equivalent which explains their difficulty in dealing with our situation....

Fantastic news Just a guy. I hope you are enjoying a social Services free life! Thanks for the update. It gives the rest of us hope. PSD enjoyed reading your comment, summed up well unfortunately! In our situation even husbands solicitor was shocked and ‘concerned’ that I’ve made a freedom of inform...

Has anyone done this? I’m assuming we would need to pay. Are there solicitors that can help do this? Most of you know the story but 21m down the line no progress whatsoever with contact I have made a freedom of information request questioning a lot of things from the psychological report on content,...

Hi KH wife of a man charged with iioc on his laptop back just over a year ago. He has been out of the family home for almost 21m not by choice but due to the length of investigation, charge, endless assessments and work through Children’s services. I second the Lucy Faithfull organisation have been ...