You do realise that even an IIOC offender is looking at actual photos of real people dont you? Those children have been abused for IIOC offenders pleasure so yes they have ruined children's lives. It is staggering just how unaware you are and you constantly blame everyone but yourself for the fact y...

Now in April this year we had a meeting and it was decided my two youngest would be informed they would not be allowed to meet my exes new partner until they were 18 and would be given full disclosure and they could make their own minds up. They would just be told it would be in their best interests...

I split up with my long term partner around 3 years ago. Regrettably the relationship ended due to trust issues which led to me slapping her. After a while we became amicable again and we both moved onto life with new partners. I was informed by a friend of my exes who had met him that he had a bord...

Foreigner, I'm a bit confused why you would disagree with 'the way I see myself' after the experiences you and your partner have had with social services on this topic. You express faith in your partner, that you don't believe he would harm the kids, and you rightly point out it's a tyranny when th...

It was a split conference because my ex partner requested it as things got heated at a previous meeting when i was asked my concerns I will admit i did rant a bit as i was frustrated by the whole process and the fact she continues to minimise the risk which obviously the NSPCC have shared. She is st...

Latest update - My oldest daughter now lives with me as she argued with my ex over her new partner. My oldest daughter told my ex she had nightmares about being raped by him and that she didnt feel confortable with him coming to the house. My ex also for some reason decided to tell her that her new ...

Yeah I was wondering just if I was overreacting to the whole parole officer thing. It is concerning to me that things I have said / reported don't seem to have been followed up. On the plus side yesterday as i went to pick up the girls as my ex had taken them to her sisters. I was a few minutes earl...

Yeah I get that the parole officer is entitled to their opinion but I have seen texts that prove they lied about disclosure and other worrying things and she has not even asked to see them. Surely this is part of her job to check out such accusations towards him? Also he is a convicted rapist who ba...

The meeting ok the children are still on the protected register under neglect. I was concerned that still the only thing that seemed to concern my ex was the fact that the meeting between the children and her new partner was not happening this week. This was bought up by the NSPCC and the social wor...

Right latest update - There is another child protection conference today and I am feeling more positive about things as this morning I received a report from the social worker. It seems the new social worker is also concerned about my exes attitude towards her partner as she minimises any concerns i...