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by Ichi
Wed Oct 31, 2018 8:21 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I am a sex offender father please help me
Replies: 62
Views: 45480

Re: I am a sex offender father please help me

Foreigner, I'm a bit confused why you would disagree with 'the way I see myself' after the experiences you and your partner have had with social services on this topic. You express faith in your partner, that you don't believe he would harm the kids, and you rightly point out it's a tyranny when th...
by Ichi
Mon Jul 16, 2018 11:29 pm
Forum: General
Topic: Don't know what to do
Replies: 20
Views: 9060

Re: Don't know what to do

It was a split conference because my ex partner requested it as things got heated at a previous meeting when i was asked my concerns I will admit i did rant a bit as i was frustrated by the whole process and the fact she continues to minimise the risk which obviously the NSPCC have shared. She is st...
by Ichi
Tue Jul 10, 2018 8:38 pm
Forum: General
Topic: Don't know what to do
Replies: 20
Views: 9060

Re: Don't know what to do

Latest update - My oldest daughter now lives with me as she argued with my ex over her new partner. My oldest daughter told my ex she had nightmares about being raped by him and that she didnt feel confortable with him coming to the house. My ex also for some reason decided to tell her that her new ...
by Ichi
Sat Jun 02, 2018 3:32 pm
Forum: General
Topic: Don't know what to do
Replies: 20
Views: 9060

Re: Don't know what to do

Yeah I was wondering just if I was overreacting to the whole parole officer thing. It is concerning to me that things I have said / reported don't seem to have been followed up. On the plus side yesterday as i went to pick up the girls as my ex had taken them to her sisters. I was a few minutes earl...
by Ichi
Tue May 29, 2018 2:04 pm
Forum: General
Topic: Don't know what to do
Replies: 20
Views: 9060

Re: Don't know what to do

Yeah I get that the parole officer is entitled to their opinion but I have seen texts that prove they lied about disclosure and other worrying things and she has not even asked to see them. Surely this is part of her job to check out such accusations towards him? Also he is a convicted rapist who ba...
by Ichi
Sun May 27, 2018 8:35 pm
Forum: General
Topic: Don't know what to do
Replies: 20
Views: 9060

Re: Don't know what to do

The meeting ok the children are still on the protected register under neglect. I was concerned that still the only thing that seemed to concern my ex was the fact that the meeting between the children and her new partner was not happening this week. This was bought up by the NSPCC and the social wor...
by Ichi
Fri May 25, 2018 4:17 am
Forum: General
Topic: Don't know what to do
Replies: 20
Views: 9060

Re: Don't know what to do

Right latest update - There is another child protection conference today and I am feeling more positive about things as this morning I received a report from the social worker. It seems the new social worker is also concerned about my exes attitude towards her partner as she minimises any concerns i...
by Ichi
Fri May 04, 2018 6:16 am
Forum: General
Topic: Don't know what to do
Replies: 20
Views: 9060

Re: Don't know what to do

I am now even more concerned about this new partner of my exes and feel saddened and let down. He has been deemed a low risk to children and women that are known to him and I am told I should be reassured by this but I am not as this is only a small percentage of people that aren't at risk to him. I...
by Ichi
Thu Apr 05, 2018 9:03 am
Forum: General
Topic: Don't know what to do
Replies: 20
Views: 9060

Re: Don't know what to do

Thank you for the advice I shall definitely be taking action. As an update my ex met him on Tuesday night as he had to come up to here to pick up his assessment which has cleared him to meet the children. I am not happy about this as I feel he may have hoodwinked them as from what I have seen he is ...
by Ichi
Wed Mar 28, 2018 7:48 pm
Forum: General
Topic: Don't know what to do
Replies: 20
Views: 9060

Re: Don't know what to do

Just to give an update and ask again for advice as I am now worried. We had a Child Protection Conference and the case and the children are now on the child protection register. The category is down as neglect which is fair as I think my ex has been neglecting the children since she began her relati...