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by Freddie
Fri Jul 13, 2018 9:44 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Nspcc women as protectors course went wrong
Replies: 2
Views: 1011

Nspcc women as protectors course went wrong

I am in a relationship with an SO his crimes are against adult women, not children. He had an independent SW assessment stating he is a low risk around children. Our case went to CPC and I suggested doing the women as protectors course so that i could learn about possible signs and how to protect my...
by Freddie
Wed Jul 11, 2018 5:12 pm
Forum: Getting your voice heard
Topic: can you trust social services
Replies: 28
Views: 58670

Re: can you trust social services

Sadly no I have been fighting then for a year now and once I overcome 1 hurdle they throw another 1 in my way. Inirially.it was my new partners risk K towards them, that was assessed to be low, then it was the fact he has never been in a family environment. Now they have deemed me unable to keep the...
by Freddie
Wed Jul 11, 2018 1:27 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Talking to children about parents convictions
Replies: 11
Views: 1632

Re: Talking to children about parents convictions

Hi I am soon to go through this. New partners crime was against an adult female and he is deemed low risk to the kids. My SW and NSPCC are hugely in favour of disclosing something to the kids. I am scared on how to.do this as I'm worried how it will affect them. They want to phrase it as bad touchin...
by Freddie
Tue Apr 17, 2018 3:21 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: relationship with a sex offender
Replies: 22
Views: 8575

Re: relationship with a sex offender

Js1965. I understand many people are not going to understand our relationship. I did not go looking for an offender of any sort. We met we developed feelings like most couples do. I have known from the start about his past and that is everything he has done, circumstances leading up to it, everythin...
by Freddie
Mon Apr 09, 2018 4:34 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: relationship with a sex offender
Replies: 22
Views: 8575

Re: relationship with a sex offender

Suzie

How costly would it be to go down the legal route?
by Freddie
Mon Apr 09, 2018 4:33 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: relationship with a sex offender
Replies: 22
Views: 8575

Re: relationship with a sex offender

Thank you Suzie. I will definitely write to Social services asking where we go from here and what their stance is now the assessment is in. As for the ex it is the usual case of he would agree with the assessment but only if it went his way. All along I said however it came back I would follow SS re...
by Freddie
Thu Apr 05, 2018 6:33 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: relationship with a sex offender
Replies: 22
Views: 8575

Re: relationship with a sex offender

UPDATE: So 5 months after starting the assessment my partner has been deemed a low sexual risk to my children. Unfortunately during core groups my ex started being underhand and had being trying to discredit me. He hacked my emails and found "proof" that we had lied about disclosure. We ha...
by Freddie
Thu Apr 05, 2018 6:11 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I want to marry a sex offender
Replies: 7
Views: 3691

Re: I want to marry a sex offender

So nice to hear good news. Can i ask what your partners offense was? I am with a sex offender who is on life license. S'S are making us jump through hoops and my SW is just plain nasty and in reports she rips me to shreds. We have worked with them all the way through but ex is causing trouble and ha...
by Freddie
Mon Mar 05, 2018 7:11 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I want to marry a sex offender
Replies: 7
Views: 3691

Re: I want to marry a sex offender

Hi I see that your ex has managed to get a prohibition order preventing your partner seeing your children. How did this happen? I am currently seeing a SO and my ex will not accept any reassurances that my children will be safe and is refusing to allow them to meet, as are SS. We are currently going...
by Freddie
Wed Nov 01, 2017 8:30 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: relationship with a sex offender
Replies: 22
Views: 8575

Re: relationship with a sex offender

So after a very troubling couple of days feeling unsafe and worried about the threat my ex posed both to me and my family i think there has bern some breakthrough. Ex has agreed to meet my new partner under mediation. He is actually quite calm and reasonable. Child services have been informed of the...

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