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by A123
Mon Feb 19, 2024 10:01 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: child had ears pierced
Replies: 1
Views: 426

child had ears pierced

i have a daughter who is 8 in the summer. i've not been allowed to see her due to the carer (kinship placement) i have just discovered she has had her ears pierced without my consent or knowledge of this what are my rights? i have never even so much as signed a form for even a hair cut (think its th...
by A123
Fri Sep 29, 2023 5:33 pm
Forum: General/Archive
Topic: I don't know what to do
Replies: 1
Views: 476

I don't know what to do

Hi this might get a bit confusing I have just found out that I am pregnant with baby number 5 complete accident and unexpected, my 4previous children are under full care orders with the LA with the youngest being adopted (2020) they were not all removed at birth only the youngest 2 and all for diffe...
by A123
Thu Jun 08, 2023 5:53 pm
Forum: General/Archive
Topic: just found out im pregnant
Replies: 1
Views: 578

just found out im pregnant

i have 4 older children 3 under care orders and 1 adopted last time I was pregnant was 2018 which led to adoption based on the fact she had been with the adopters too long. i have since gone on to pass a placement with parent assessment for my 2nd child who is 10 and he is due home before january ne...
by A123
Fri Jan 13, 2023 5:24 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: Placement with parent assessment
Replies: 3
Views: 1530

Re: Placement with parent assessment

Hi Suzie the assessment is only for overnights atm I'm not sure if the capacity was done as there has never been an issue with my care of my son, and none of the professionals has raised any problems when my contact was supervised, the assessment focused more on meeting his needs in terms of his beh...
by A123
Wed Jan 04, 2023 10:39 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: Placement with parent assessment
Replies: 3
Views: 1530

Placement with parent assessment

Not posted for a while but in 2019 an adoption order was granted on my youngest born 2018, well fast-forward to last year and I had a placement with parents assessment for my 2nd child and passed no concerns about my parenting ability and he has suspected autism and is in a special unit in school so...
by A123
Sun Apr 25, 2021 4:50 pm
Forum: 26 week care proceedings timescale
Topic: Niece needs help
Replies: 3
Views: 2344

Re: Niece needs help

i was in a DV relationship in 2012 when i was pregnant and that opened up a never ending can of worms, he went to prison before my son was born an i was able to keep my son and my older daughter fastforward a year after my son was born i lost my daughter to an sgo for emotional abuse i had post nata...
by A123
Fri Jan 01, 2021 8:15 pm
Forum: General/Archive
Topic: kinship carers what rule do they abide by? HELP!!!
Replies: 6
Views: 4019

Re: kinship carers what rule do they abide by? HELP!!!

Hi suzie the outcome of the complaint at the time was the they encourage photos on social media :evil: because its a family placement, so i raised what i would say are safeguarding issues such as her school logo is clearly visible her father could turn up at the school hes now released from prison a...
by A123
Fri Jan 01, 2021 8:04 pm
Forum: General/Archive
Topic: Can anyone clarify
Replies: 2
Views: 2756

Re: Can anyone clarify

Hi Suzie I have been looking at moving to Ireland, Canada or the US upon completing my law degree nothing to do with social services really, i have spoken to my current social worker and asked if i moved back to her area and got pregnant in the future would they go straight into court for a placemen...
by A123
Mon Dec 21, 2020 6:50 pm
Forum: General/Archive
Topic: Can anyone clarify
Replies: 2
Views: 2756

Can anyone clarify

I've been told that a persons history with social services will follow them where ever they go including if the leave the UK is this true? I'm looking for a fresh start as I've had 4 court cases since 2014 including revoking placement orders and removal from my mother to fc and every time I have hav...
by A123
Wed Dec 16, 2020 1:39 pm
Forum: General/Archive
Topic: kinship carers what rule do they abide by? HELP!!!
Replies: 6
Views: 4019

Re: kinship carers what rule do they abide by? HELP!!!

Hi Suzie the case that is currently in court is for my m=youngest child not the child in the kinship placement, since i made the formal complaint the carer has put more photos up on social media and i still have to go through a 3rd party for photos of my daughter the carer won't deal with me directl...