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by DD2SS
Sat Sep 15, 2018 10:55 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: sex offender dad my story
Replies: 3
Views: 368

Re: sex offender dad my story

PSD, you started this thread saying you wanted to be constructive and provide advice on what to do to re-build families affected by online sexual offences. If you look below your first paragraph, there is nothing that provides constructive advice. You talk about yourself and how you are the victim. ...
by DD2SS
Sat Sep 15, 2018 10:12 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I am a sex offender father please help me
Replies: 56
Views: 42152

Re: I am a sex offender father please help me

Seadog, As someone who has been there, I get where your husband is at the moment. Every day is like walking through treacle. I get that he feels that working and making money and contributing is the one last thing he can do before the axe falls. While I disagree with much of what PSD says, I do agre...
by DD2SS
Sat Sep 15, 2018 9:39 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I am a sex offender father please help me
Replies: 56
Views: 42152

Re: I am a sex offender father please help me

City, I'm really sorry to see that you didn't get the outcome you hoped for. There are lots of positives in what you say though, more perhaps than you can see at the moment with your disappointment. Reading between the lines, a lot of the decision has been to do with the age of the children, who are...
by DD2SS
Mon Aug 20, 2018 8:46 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: what to say to the kids
Replies: 6
Views: 1307

Re: what to say to the kids

Sorry it's taken me a while to get back to you. I think you're doing brilliantly and doing all the right things, you're so child focused. You're not even at sentencing yet, it's such early days. Give yourself time - if he gets a custodial sentence things are well out of your hands fo the time being ...
by DD2SS
Tue Aug 14, 2018 5:18 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: what to say to the kids
Replies: 6
Views: 1307

Re: what to say to the kids

I know, it's difficult, it really is. I think the reality is no one really knows what risk he poses at this time. People who commit this crime have already deceived and hidden behaviours from others, often for a long time. It'll take time - a long time - for him to do the work he needs to sort himse...
by DD2SS
Tue Aug 14, 2018 2:46 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: what to say to the kids
Replies: 6
Views: 1307

Re: what to say to the kids

Hi there, Hopefully this thread might be useful to you: http://www.frg.org.uk/ParentsForum/viewtopic.php?f=16&t=1614&sid=cce6d1ee492513cd2c662f19ebfd73d2 While things are so chaotic for you, I think what you say there is already a good start: "even that he has done somenthing wrong he s...
by DD2SS
Wed Jul 18, 2018 9:08 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Social services ignoring sopo
Replies: 13
Views: 1855

Re: Social services ignoring sopo

Hi Lily14, I say all this without legal training, so please get legal help if you need to. The criminal court sets out a SOPO based on the evidence of the criminal case, usually a criminal justice social work report, and any other relevant evidence. This is unlikely to include an individualised asse...
by DD2SS
Fri Jul 13, 2018 11:24 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Talking to children about parents convictions
Replies: 14
Views: 1963

Re: Talking to children about parents convictions

Sorry, just wanted to say one more thing. We were fortunate in that our Cafcass officer was excellent (private law case), had befriended the children, and was very neutral when disclosing (with mum present). Not sure who you have available to you to help out, but obviously who gives the information ...
by DD2SS
Fri Jul 13, 2018 11:12 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Talking to children about parents convictions
Replies: 14
Views: 1963

Re: Talking to children about parents convictions

Hi all, glad it was helpful. Freddie: I don't think you should feel bad or worried at all about the NSPCC's "good touches, bad touches" approach, that is all part of self protection and it's good that they learn about it. In your case, it doesn't sound like it would be directly related (or...

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