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by saraheve29
Thu Jul 26, 2018 10:28 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: Failed trying to get son back
Replies: 5
Views: 2804

Re: Failed trying to get son back

Hi I need help discharging a care order, I have adressed fully all of the concerns and managed to keep my daughter in my care with no order. I went to court in January and the parenting assessor said because i have autism I won't be able to handle two children at two difrent ages because of multi ta...
by saraheve29
Wed Jul 25, 2018 8:50 pm
Forum: General
Topic: I need Advice please
Replies: 1
Views: 999

I need Advice please

Hi I need help discharging a care order, I have adressed fully all of the concerns and managed to keep my daughter in my care with no order. I went to court in January and the parenting assessor said because i have autism I won't be able to handle two children at two difrent ages because of multi ta...
by saraheve29
Sat Apr 21, 2018 6:45 am
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: Failed trying to get son back
Replies: 5
Views: 2804

Re: Failed trying to get son back

Thankyou, i do want my son to settle, the good news is social services are going to have a contact meeting soon, and their going to now invite me to all lac review meetings, when before i was excluded, the parenting assossor and the guardian both agreed i should be having more contact or better cont...
by saraheve29
Mon Apr 16, 2018 3:04 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: Failed trying to get son back
Replies: 5
Views: 2804

Failed trying to get son back

Hi unfortunately I lost the case the reasons being is because my son has adhd and i have a baby they said i wont be able to look after both on my own. Plus i wont be able to disapline him which was a previous concern but i know i can. I dont know what to do as his self harming and not sleeping becau...
by saraheve29
Sun Apr 08, 2018 11:14 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: Worried if I'm making the right decision
Replies: 14
Views: 7458

Re: Worried if I'm making the right decision

Hi unfortunately I lost the case the reasons being is because my son has adhd and i have a baby they said i wont be able to look after both on my own. Plus i wont be able to disapline him which was a previous concern but i know i can. I dont know what to do as his self harming and not sleeping becau...
by saraheve29
Sun Apr 08, 2018 11:02 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: Hi really needing advice please
Replies: 3
Views: 2644

Re: Hi really needing advice please

My son is almost 11 and desperate to come home. I have a 1 year old baby and allowed to care for my baby but not my 10 year old because he has adhd I lost the case and loosing hope. I also was told by social services that i have to tell my son that i lost, which will hurt him and his been hurt enough
by saraheve29
Wed Mar 14, 2018 6:56 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: Worried if I'm making the right decision
Replies: 14
Views: 7458

Re: Worried if I'm making the right decision

Hi my dad said because he is retired he does not want the responsibility of bringing up a 10 year old untill their 18. He said he wouldnt mind if it was shared with me but social services said it will not be able to be shared, Now social service's said their going to move my son foster care placemen...
by saraheve29
Sun Mar 11, 2018 10:21 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: Worried if I'm making the right decision
Replies: 14
Views: 7458

Re: Worried if I'm making the right decision

I miss my son so much its so hard on mothers day
by saraheve29
Tue Mar 06, 2018 6:53 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: Worried if I'm making the right decision
Replies: 14
Views: 7458

Re: Worried if I'm making the right decision

Hi Suzy thanks for your reply, my son is 10 and i asked him to feed my one year old daughter milk from the bottle while i checked on the hot oven. I didnt know this was appropriate i was letting my son help out and encouraging the bond but in noway i would expect or want him to become a carer. I am ...
by saraheve29
Mon Mar 05, 2018 11:46 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: Hi really needing advice please
Replies: 3
Views: 2644

Hi really needing advice please

Hi Suzie I need somone to talk to, i failed the parenting assessment dispite technically passing it as they said i have got good enough parenting skills and my home is satisfactory, they said they feel i can not look after a baby, shes one now and a 10 year old at the same time because im autistic. ...