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by Chancing
Fri Aug 11, 2017 12:49 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Will social services tell my daughter ?
Replies: 9
Views: 1205

Re: Will social services tell my daughter ?

Just a note to perfectly safe dad, not all internet offenders are harmless. My own partner is the perfect case in point. He committed very serious real life offences and was sentenced to 7 years. He is currently on licence and will be on the register indefinitely. Whilst you have some great informat...
by Chancing
Fri Aug 11, 2017 11:39 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Partner arrested for possession of IIOC
Replies: 9
Views: 1214

Re: Partner arrested for possession of IOC

Have replied to your PM. ;)
by Chancing
Fri Aug 11, 2017 11:31 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Indecent Images Charge. Advice please on working positively with Children's Serivices
Replies: 6
Views: 1093

Re: Indecent Images Charge. Advice please on working positively with Children's Serivices

As the partner of an SO who served a significant jail sentence for his offences I can assure you it is possible to work with child welfare successfully. I have 4 children, none of which are his, two of which are the age of his victim at the time of his offences. 16-19. The fact is as the offender th...
by Chancing
Fri Aug 11, 2017 9:18 am
Forum: General
Topic: Help supervised access
Replies: 3
Views: 637

Re: Help supervised access

I have a thread about negotiating child welfare. If it's of any use. What I will say is this may be asuch to do with introducing your kids to a new partner as it is to do with your offense. How long have you been with her, does she understand your offense, does she understand what she is supposed to...
by Chancing
Thu Jul 27, 2017 4:52 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Social Services and Sex Offender
Replies: 2
Views: 957

Re: Social Services and Sex Offender

I have posted a few times on dealing with child welfare as the partner of a SO. My partner isn't my children's father, his victim was of the age of consent, as are my eldest daughters. He had served a considerable sentence and I was perfectly aware of what the process would entail. We have been succ...
by Chancing
Fri Jul 07, 2017 8:59 am
Forum: General
Topic: relationship with sex offender
Replies: 3
Views: 813

IRe: relationship with sex offender

Having been in a very similar situation myself I can tell you very little YOU do will make a difference to wether you are able to continue your relationship. It will all come down to your partner and wether the Child welfare believe she is capable of protecting her children. The best thing she can d...
by Chancing
Tue Jul 04, 2017 9:39 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Police and social services
Replies: 5
Views: 844

Re: Police and social services

I suspect the social workers will be concerned at the emotional and mental damage and trauma your mother is inflicting on them. I understand she is your mother but she is endangering your children and,your,relationship with them. If any of these allegations actually went further your partner would b...
by Chancing
Fri Jun 02, 2017 11:22 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: What happens next !! Husband arrested for IOC
Replies: 7
Views: 1701

Re: What happens next !! Husband arrested for IOC

Dear scared, Sorry to hear about your situation. My partner is a registered sex offender so I have been through a lot of this myself. Your husband being released, pending the investigation, simply means they won't hold him until they have finished building their case and handing it in to the Crown p...
by Chancing
Fri Jun 02, 2017 9:44 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Successfully negotiating child welfare.
Replies: 2
Views: 751

Successfully negotiating child welfare.

I thought I would post something positive since because people tend to end up here when it's all going wrong, there are rarely any positive posts. Firstly I am a long-term functioning addict, 20 year s. I have 4 children, 2 boys,2 girls. They live with me, always have. The social are aware of my dru...
by Chancing
Sat Apr 01, 2017 10:27 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I am a sex offender father please help me
Replies: 23
Views: 18112

Re: I am a sex offender father please help me

I think the reason better educated well off individuals get harder hit is because they are expected to be above this kind of behaviour. Before you jump on me, my partner is a RSO, who served a custodial sentence, 3years on licence, and 15 years-on the register. The problem is the pervasive attitude ...

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