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by PerfectlySafeDad
Tue Feb 20, 2018 1:07 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: what if there is no 'unsupervized contact' prohibition on a SHPO?
Replies: 0
Views: 28

what if there is no 'unsupervized contact' prohibition on a SHPO?

If a Dad convicted of indecent images has an SHPO which does not include any clause about contact (ie internet prohibitions only), thereby no legal restriction on him seeing his own children, exactly what power does Children's Services have to step in if the Dad ignores them and just goes about such...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Tue Feb 20, 2018 12:47 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Update on iioc , now found cat a !!!
Replies: 9
Views: 433

Re: Update on iioc , now found cat a !!!

Sorry but it really makes my blood boil this default position of social services, and seemingly everyone else, of deeming a guy a 'risk' or even 'high risk' of contact offence with their own children by virtue of having had an interest in (sometimes a very small way indeed) child porn. It actually d...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Thu Feb 01, 2018 2:07 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Update on iioc , now found cat a !!!
Replies: 9
Views: 433

Re: Update on iioc , now found cat a !!!

I'm afraid if Cat A images are present it is certain to go to court, probably for a lot less than that. If, however, there's not a lot of images then your husband should be able to hope for the lightest possible sentence which is a community order (no prison, and a sex offenders rehab work with prob...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Thu Feb 01, 2018 1:58 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I want to marry a sex offender
Replies: 3
Views: 239

Re: I want to marry a sex offender

Hi Shaftesbury, I'm not a legal expert of any kind, but I have done a lot of reading about sex offender prohibition orders and social services involvement, etc, because of my own situation. In your partner's case, you should have no worries in theory. I read somewhere that once a person is off the r...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Thu Jan 18, 2018 8:29 pm
Forum: Trying to get help for your child?
Topic: minor sex offense
Replies: 4
Views: 1612

Re: minor sex offense

Sickening. All these layers, all this bureaucracy and state threat - in the name of God and human decency isn't it plainly obvious that a lusty little act over social media as a teenager for Christ's sake does not equal being a bad father in later life. Zero correlation. Lunatics are in charge of th...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Tue Jan 16, 2018 6:02 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Partner of sex offender
Replies: 3
Views: 564

Re: Partner of sex offender

'They have moved the goal post so many times with no reason why yet we have stuck to our side of the plan exactly. The prebirth assessment has gone really well with the social worker actually saying he will make a good dad. She has already stated to me she has more important cases that need priority...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed Oct 04, 2017 11:27 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I am a sex offender father please help me
Replies: 23
Views: 25516

Re: I am a sex offender father please help me

Good news indeed re. Ilseycat. There is hope you and your partner can build a family life, ultimately without an oppressive degree of state interference if you do as told to the letter. Still, I find it difficult to trust them, so capricious callous and disorganized they can be. But they've totally ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed Oct 04, 2017 10:46 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I am a sex offender father please help me
Replies: 23
Views: 25516

Re: I am a sex offender father please help me

@Helpless. The situation with your son smacks of the great witch hunt more than anything else I have read or experienced on the child protection front, which is a heck of a lot. Absolutely sickening and exasperating that your son be denied his job for this, despite a plethora of obviously good and s...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Fri Aug 18, 2017 2:46 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I am a sex offender father please help me
Replies: 23
Views: 25516

Re: I am a sex offender father please help me

Good luck Ilsseycat, and particularly your husband (as he is the one most likely to lose his human right to a family). From what I understand, a 'child in need' meeting is not as severe as a child protection plan. The reason you haven't heard much, is because they probably don't know what to do, and...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed Aug 16, 2017 9:48 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I'm a sex offender dad and I want my family back
Replies: 12
Views: 4571

Re: I'm a sex offender dad and I want my family back

[quote="Scared2" , feel like we have all just been left hanging and not know what happens next , my son is 14 and goes to football and stuff with my hubby ( well did )[/quote] This is so sad to hear, and a familiar scenario to me. I make no bones about this, Scared2 - in my opinion this is...

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