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by PerfectlySafeDad
Thu Jan 18, 2018 8:29 pm
Forum: Trying to get help for your child?
Topic: minor sex offense
Replies: 4
Views: 1396

Re: minor sex offense

Sickening. All these layers, all this bureaucracy and state threat - in the name of God and human decency isn't it plainly obvious that a lusty little act over social media as a teenager for Christ's sake does not equal being a bad father in later life. Zero correlation. Lunatics are in charge of th...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Tue Jan 16, 2018 6:02 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Partner of sex offender
Replies: 2
Views: 339

Re: Partner of sex offender

'They have moved the goal post so many times with no reason why yet we have stuck to our side of the plan exactly. The prebirth assessment has gone really well with the social worker actually saying he will make a good dad. She has already stated to me she has more important cases that need priority...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Tue Jan 16, 2018 1:37 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Social Services 'advice'
Replies: 0
Views: 137

Social Services 'advice'

The question, in a nutshell, would be do they really mean 'advice' or is it a veiled threat? The long version: I am 14 months into a 3-year community order for IOC possession and publication of obscene articles (child-sex fantasies to an obscure website - the sharing of written fantasy has now been ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed Oct 04, 2017 11:27 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I am a sex offender father please help me
Replies: 23
Views: 23126

Re: I am a sex offender father please help me

Good news indeed re. Ilseycat. There is hope you and your partner can build a family life, ultimately without an oppressive degree of state interference if you do as told to the letter. Still, I find it difficult to trust them, so capricious callous and disorganized they can be. But they've totally ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed Oct 04, 2017 10:46 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I am a sex offender father please help me
Replies: 23
Views: 23126

Re: I am a sex offender father please help me

@Helpless. The situation with your son smacks of the great witch hunt more than anything else I have read or experienced on the child protection front, which is a heck of a lot. Absolutely sickening and exasperating that your son be denied his job for this, despite a plethora of obviously good and s...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Fri Aug 18, 2017 2:46 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I am a sex offender father please help me
Replies: 23
Views: 23126

Re: I am a sex offender father please help me

Good luck Ilsseycat, and particularly your husband (as he is the one most likely to lose his human right to a family). From what I understand, a 'child in need' meeting is not as severe as a child protection plan. The reason you haven't heard much, is because they probably don't know what to do, and...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed Aug 16, 2017 9:48 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I'm a sex offender dad and I want my family back
Replies: 12
Views: 3924

Re: I'm a sex offender dad and I want my family back

[quote="Scared2" , feel like we have all just been left hanging and not know what happens next , my son is 14 and goes to football and stuff with my hubby ( well did )[/quote] This is so sad to hear, and a familiar scenario to me. I make no bones about this, Scared2 - in my opinion this is...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Mon Aug 14, 2017 12:17 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Indecent Images Charge. Advice please on working positively with Children's Serivices
Replies: 6
Views: 1752

Re: Indecent Images Charge. Advice please on working positively with Children's Serivices

@Chancing, it does give hope for us all that you seem to have negotiated something close to freedom for you and your partner, despite a very serious offending history. I dread to think how long this took you, and how much strength and legal help and costs. The problem for many parents in similar pos...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sun Aug 13, 2017 11:53 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Will social services tell my daughter ?
Replies: 9
Views: 2060

Re: Will social services tell my daughter ?

I agree Chancing, not all internet offenders are non-contact offenders or low risk, and the complexities of the issue (not that huge really) seem to be beyond our authorities. The problem I have with all this is that if there is no evidence of other offences after the investigation has been done, th...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Thu Aug 03, 2017 3:15 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Indecent Images Charge. Advice please on working positively with Children's Serivices
Replies: 6
Views: 1752

Re: Indecent Images Charge. Advice please on working positively with Children's Serivices

By the way, London, you did not mention how old are your children. This could be significant because if you have already lived as a family for some time, and no concerns of abuse or history with Social Services - ie happy, healthy children - then they may be more convinced as to your safety. Basical...

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