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by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed Feb 21, 2018 9:41 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Child Protection
Replies: 2
Views: 974

Re: Child Protection

BBmum - your story angers me too, just by reading it. Keep strong, whatever you do, or at least hide your moments of weakness in private. If they spot you in a 'bad moment', they'll use it as ammunition to pursue you down the mental health route. This is what they do; their involvement, all the insa...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed Feb 21, 2018 9:31 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Help/Advice Appreciated
Replies: 11
Views: 2242

Re: Help/Advice Appreciated

'I am now under the impression that I am being victimised and also harassed by social services.' - you are; it's what they do. They create many many victims among children and parents. 'Are they trying to catch me out in something?' - Yes. they're probably trying to get a random impression of what y...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed Feb 21, 2018 9:13 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Social services involvement
Replies: 5
Views: 1451

Re: Social services involvement

The incompetence and disruption is unbelievable. I wish you luck with these people. If you refuse 'support' on the grounds you don't need it, you'll be labelled a 'risk'. If you accept support, you'll be in effect admitting you're a 'risk' and you'll receive nothing but bureaucracy, disruption and s...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Tue Feb 20, 2018 1:07 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: what if there is no 'unsupervized contact' prohibition on a SHPO?
Replies: 1
Views: 816

what if there is no 'unsupervized contact' prohibition on a SHPO?

If a Dad convicted of indecent images has an SHPO which does not include any clause about contact (ie internet prohibitions only), thereby no legal restriction on him seeing his own children, exactly what power does Children's Services have to step in if the Dad ignores them and just goes about such...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Tue Feb 20, 2018 12:47 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Update on iioc , now found cat a !!!
Replies: 12
Views: 2637

Re: Update on iioc , now found cat a !!!

Sorry but it really makes my blood boil this default position of social services, and seemingly everyone else, of deeming a guy a 'risk' or even 'high risk' of contact offence with their own children by virtue of having had an interest in (sometimes a very small way indeed) child porn. It actually d...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Thu Feb 01, 2018 2:07 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Update on iioc , now found cat a !!!
Replies: 12
Views: 2637

Re: Update on iioc , now found cat a !!!

I'm afraid if Cat A images are present it is certain to go to court, probably for a lot less than that. If, however, there's not a lot of images then your husband should be able to hope for the lightest possible sentence which is a community order (no prison, and a sex offenders rehab work with prob...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Thu Feb 01, 2018 1:58 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I want to marry a sex offender
Replies: 7
Views: 2306

Re: I want to marry a sex offender

Hi Shaftesbury, I'm not a legal expert of any kind, but I have done a lot of reading about sex offender prohibition orders and social services involvement, etc, because of my own situation. In your partner's case, you should have no worries in theory. I read somewhere that once a person is off the r...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Thu Jan 18, 2018 8:29 pm
Forum: Trying to get help for your child?
Topic: minor sex offense
Replies: 4
Views: 2874

Re: minor sex offense

Sickening. All these layers, all this bureaucracy and state threat - in the name of God and human decency isn't it plainly obvious that a lusty little act over social media as a teenager for Christ's sake does not equal being a bad father in later life. Zero correlation. Lunatics are in charge of th...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Tue Jan 16, 2018 6:02 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Partner of sex offender
Replies: 3
Views: 1345

Re: Partner of sex offender

'They have moved the goal post so many times with no reason why yet we have stuck to our side of the plan exactly. The prebirth assessment has gone really well with the social worker actually saying he will make a good dad. She has already stated to me she has more important cases that need priority...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed Oct 04, 2017 11:27 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I am a sex offender father please help me
Replies: 23
Views: 31647

Re: I am a sex offender father please help me

Good news indeed re. Ilseycat. There is hope you and your partner can build a family life, ultimately without an oppressive degree of state interference if you do as told to the letter. Still, I find it difficult to trust them, so capricious callous and disorganized they can be. But they've totally ...

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