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by PerfectlySafeDad
Fri Jan 01, 2021 1:27 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Tiers
Replies: 0
Views: 69

Tiers

Happy new tier everyone. Just in case anybody is wondering or worried (I was), even being in tier 4 should not affect the contact you are having, whatever the circumstances - if it is an existing arrangement it can continue. So don't be told otherwise, or allow it to be twisted. Here is the proof, d...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Mon Dec 14, 2020 12:44 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Social services lying
Replies: 10
Views: 2093

Re: Social services lying

'This perhaps highlights the importance of serious cases being decided within the court arena, as it affords a necessary level of assessment, independence and scrutiny.' Yes, that's all well and good, but what about the immense time and stress and (probably) money involved in this? Parents do not re...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sat Nov 28, 2020 7:50 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Social services lying
Replies: 10
Views: 2093

Re: Social services lying

they made the news as they were graded 'INADEQUATE'. Well, that does not narrow down which Local Authority, HH_Dad, the anonymity is safe. Many things about their way of working and policies and premises and attitude cannot be right . You have a human rights violation in the account you gave, but pr...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed Oct 21, 2020 4:33 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: What happens now.
Replies: 3
Views: 1519

Re: What happens now.

Completely disgraceful you should be left hanging like this. Disgraceful that you should be treated to all effects as a potential 'culprit' in a some way by the the initial investigation by the SS, like you are possibly responsible for the rape of your daughter in some way by not caring for her; YES...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed Oct 21, 2020 4:20 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Social services to take my newborn?
Replies: 2
Views: 675

Re: Social services to take my newborn?

Horrendous that you should have to have such fear, and I hope the advisors on here can give you some concrete encouragement. It's obvious from the way you write that you are intelligent and coherent, and you sound perfectly capable of being a good loving parent. Hopefully you'll get SS visitors (if ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Fri Sep 25, 2020 6:25 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: RSO Children’s services POSITIVE stories?!
Replies: 2
Views: 1227

Re: RSO Children’s services POSITIVE stories?!

Our story isn't a positive one, but try to remember all those who has a positive experience will not use this site, or post their experiences online - SS involvement isn't something you advertise, even when they've been really helpful. So try to remember the internet has a 'negativity bias - that's ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Fri Sep 25, 2020 6:16 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Law on disclosure by children’s services
Replies: 2
Views: 742

Re: Law on disclosure by children’s services

"CS have been so incredibly unprofessional throughout this whole process and it is frightening that people like this are legally permitted to make disclosures. It also makes me worry about who else they could contact others with these exaggerated details." Yep, the way they work certainly at times (...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Fri Sep 25, 2020 6:03 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: should the LA be doing more
Replies: 3
Views: 862

Re: should the LA be doing more

'A further 6 months past..' All too familiar story. Austerity or not, this is totally unacceptable. These are people's lives being put on hold and family relationships being strangulated. Personally I don't care how much pressure the SS are under or how few staff etc etc, it's just not acceptable on...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Mon Aug 03, 2020 9:13 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: No contact allowed despite no risk assessment result
Replies: 2
Views: 1462

Re: No contact allowed despite no risk assessment result

'The conviction is spent'. That should be the end of the matter, by any sense of logic and fair play. If this is true, then it means he committed a certain set of offences (or maybe even just one individual offence) and that that set of offences has been specifically addressed by the sentence, and t...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed May 20, 2020 10:34 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Wrongfully accused / CAFCASS / court
Replies: 2
Views: 1547

Re: Wrongfully accused / CAFCASS / court

'is there is not the idea of innocent until proven guilty?' No, quite the opposite where social services are concerned. They have not heard of the very foundation of English criminal justice which states "nobody shall have their liberties curtailed based on supposition", or they just arrogantly don'...