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by PerfectlySafeDad
Sat Oct 20, 2018 1:55 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: probation officer vs children services
Replies: 4
Views: 125

Re: probation officer vs children services

At the root of it is they (CS) are over-stretched and incompetent in equal measure, resulting in a need to cover their backs at all costs. They have to be 'seen' to have taken due measures to fulfill their duty of safeguarding, hence the agreement to be signed and their uncertainty - literally that,...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Tue Oct 16, 2018 12:16 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I am a sex offender father please help me
Replies: 56
Views: 42741

Re: I am a sex offender father please help me

I'm surprised they don't get done far more often on Human Rights, but then this country is not hot on them, and after Brexit I'm not sure where we'll stand as a nation. At the moment, the European Article 8 (family life) does stand as a safety net to some extent - in the criminal courts an SHPO can ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Fri Oct 12, 2018 10:29 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I am a sex offender father please help me
Replies: 56
Views: 42741

Re: I am a sex offender father please help me

Not a 'conference' as such then, but a dictatorial and abusive panel.
by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed Oct 10, 2018 10:54 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I am a sex offender father please help me
Replies: 56
Views: 42741

Re: I am a sex offender father please help me

So well said, DesperateDad. Your post should be used as a touchstone for probation, rehab courses and most especially, of course, social services. Actually, a lot of people do have the insight you express - private counsellors, members of the Samaritans, people with genuine Christian faith, medical ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed Oct 10, 2018 10:37 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Police Investigation and Child Services Hell
Replies: 14
Views: 249

Re: Police Investigation and Child Services Hell

Dos you and your husband have my utmost sympathy, as a Dad convicted of those offences I know only too well what you face. Hell is the word for it, but there is hope you can all stay together if not immediately. It seems much dust has to settle yet. He basically has to do every conceivable thing he ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed Oct 03, 2018 11:13 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Partner rso children's services assessment. What happens now
Replies: 4
Views: 193

Re: Partner rso children's services assessment. What happens now

Unbelievable. When I think I've heard it all about the savagery of social services on the topic of 'sex offenders' (that wildly varied group lumped, labelled and demonized as one for all nature of 'risk') something yet more absurd and draconian crops up. I'm genuinely astounded, actually. This is an...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sun Sep 30, 2018 5:54 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I am a sex offender father please help me
Replies: 56
Views: 42741

Re: I am a sex offender father please help me

Foreigner, I'm a bit confused why you would disagree with 'the way I see myself' after the experiences you and your partner have had with social services on this topic. You express faith in your partner, that you don't believe he would harm the kids, and you rightly point out it's a tyranny when the...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sun Sep 30, 2018 3:27 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I am a sex offender father please help me
Replies: 56
Views: 42741

Re: I am a sex offender father please help me

Yes they 'have a duty to protect children'. I'm sick of the times I've heard that, especially from them and other safeguarding bodies who all lick each others **** in their shared prestige and zeal. It's like a mantra - like a sodding dalek talking. The question is... HOW they go about that duty. Th...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sun Sep 30, 2018 1:15 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: sex offender dad my story
Replies: 3
Views: 411

Re: sex offender dad my story

DD2 I admit my post ran aground. I got carried away with the pain and bitterness, which is why I abandoned it only half told. I utterly dispute that there's no remorse however; it was a huge factor in my suicide attempt and I'm coping with the shame every minute of every day. This is not 'being the ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sat Sep 29, 2018 11:37 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I am a sex offender father please help me
Replies: 56
Views: 42741

Re: I am a sex offender father please help me

Yep, they talk about 'safeguarding' and 'risk of harm', yet it clearly doesn't enter into their equations that there's great emotional harm going on by having a parent removed from their lives and prevented hook line and sinker from engaging in any normal life situation with the child. This harm is ...

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