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by PerfectlySafeDad
Fri Sep 25, 2020 6:25 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: RSO Children’s services POSITIVE stories?!
Replies: 2
Views: 524

Re: RSO Children’s services POSITIVE stories?!

Our story isn't a positive one, but try to remember all those who has a positive experience will not use this site, or post their experiences online - SS involvement isn't something you advertise, even when they've been really helpful. So try to remember the internet has a 'negativity bias - that's ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Fri Sep 25, 2020 6:16 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Law on disclosure by children’s services
Replies: 2
Views: 72

Re: Law on disclosure by children’s services

"CS have been so incredibly unprofessional throughout this whole process and it is frightening that people like this are legally permitted to make disclosures. It also makes me worry about who else they could contact others with these exaggerated details." Yep, the way they work certainly at times (...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Fri Sep 25, 2020 6:03 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: should the LA be doing more
Replies: 1
Views: 39

Re: should the LA be doing more

'A further 6 months past..' All too familiar story. Austerity or not, this is totally unacceptable. These are people's lives being put on hold and family relationships being strangulated. Personally I don't care how much pressure the SS are under or how few staff etc etc, it's just not acceptable on...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Mon Aug 03, 2020 9:13 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: No contact allowed despite no risk assessment result
Replies: 2
Views: 534

Re: No contact allowed despite no risk assessment result

'The conviction is spent'. That should be the end of the matter, by any sense of logic and fair play. If this is true, then it means he committed a certain set of offences (or maybe even just one individual offence) and that that set of offences has been specifically addressed by the sentence, and t...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed May 20, 2020 10:34 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Wrongfully accused / CAFCASS / court
Replies: 2
Views: 995

Re: Wrongfully accused / CAFCASS / court

'is there is not the idea of innocent until proven guilty?' No, quite the opposite where social services are concerned. They have not heard of the very foundation of English criminal justice which states "nobody shall have their liberties curtailed based on supposition", or they just arrogantly don'...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Fri Apr 03, 2020 12:03 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: The Coronavirus is impacting contact
Replies: 8
Views: 1964

Re: The Coronavirus is impacting contact

'In such situations, contacting the social worker to discuss or explain their personal situation should help to clarify future contact arrangements.' Yeah sure. If you can get through to them, especially now, and even if you do how many weeks before it goes through the channels with their superiors ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Tue Dec 31, 2019 1:11 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: What to do, why are we not being left Alone?
Replies: 5
Views: 2060

Re: What to do, why are we not being left Alone?

Whether there or genuine concerns or not for the children's welfare, everything about this case points to what an utter shambles the CS are and simply unfit for purpose. Their workload is so high they can't cope - but is it surprising when the protocol for intervention is so rigorous and automatic, ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sat Nov 23, 2019 6:01 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: looking for help and advice
Replies: 5
Views: 2005

Re: looking for help and advice

It's 21 days while they 'work out what to do' (expect this to get shifted ad infinitum), because basically they don't yet have a clue due to hopeless under-resourcing (for which you, the service users are penalized in the form of your human rights). It's currently a box-ticking exercise, because thi...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sun Nov 10, 2019 6:24 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Partner has aniexty.
Replies: 4
Views: 1427

Re: Partner has aniexty.

If they didn't have anxiety already, anybody is going to have after social services involvement. Not support, not safeguarding: Harassment, pure and simple.
by PerfectlySafeDad
Mon Sep 16, 2019 10:49 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Any advice welcome, lost and confused!
Replies: 17
Views: 5629

Re: Any advice welcome, lost and confused!

'however my partner was never charged or even arrested so I don't understand how this can follow him for so long and affect our lives so much.' Because it's a witch hunt, simple. And CS are at the vanguard of it, and absolute incompetent back-covering ***s. They care only about themselves and not th...