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by PerfectlySafeDad
Sat Apr 06, 2019 12:09 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: relationship on the SOR
Replies: 0
Views: 158

relationship on the SOR

Some good news from me: I'm 2 and a quarter years through a 3-year community sentence for possession of indecent images. I was divorced at the beginning of this (for obvious reasons), and at 49 after 22 years of marriage I thought how the hell will I ever find love again, especially given the stigma...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Fri Apr 05, 2019 6:34 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Child Protection order
Replies: 8
Views: 615

Re: Child Protection order

RS32, your case is absolutely appalling and a violation of human rights in so many ways. Firstly, there's the shocking possibility your partner has been intimidated into an outright false confession by the sheer menacing weight of the Great Witch Hunt. Then is the unprovable 'risk' your partner pose...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Fri Apr 05, 2019 6:16 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: About to be indicted on indecent Images
Replies: 5
Views: 390

Re: About to be indicted on indecent Images

If it's any consolation, Nicenana (I doubt whether it is), in my opinion your son is absolutely a victim of the Great Witch Hunt. Of course abuses happen and there are victims, but the way the whole thing is conducted is hysterical and without moderation or human reality. Just because by the letter ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Mon Apr 01, 2019 4:41 pm
Forum: General
Topic: My husband downloaded indecent images
Replies: 34
Views: 12734

Re: My husband downloaded indecent images

You can put it as nicely and professionally as you want, but she's got her children back home basically because she's agreed to being bullied by them as to what relationships she can choose, and the risk she's 'worked to reduce' is an 'alleged risk' - it's in the eyes of the SS. Let's get that strai...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sun Mar 31, 2019 4:34 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: About to be indicted on indecent Images
Replies: 5
Views: 390

Re: About to be indicted on indecent Images

As one charged (and convicted) of possession of indecent images in England, I can only make educated guesses as to your position but there's bound to be lots of similarities. If you keep your head and have a lawyer worth his salt you should at least be able to get the 'coercion' allegation thrown ou...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sun Mar 24, 2019 5:16 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I want to marry a sex offender
Replies: 9
Views: 6059

Re: I want to marry a sex offender

Dear Shaftesbury, I do not agree with PerfectlySafeDad's view that coming off the sex offenders register will make your partner automatically safe to be with your children. However, due to the support your partner may have received over the years and no further abuse incidents, he may be much less ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sun Mar 24, 2019 2:46 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: What to do with a boyfriend with a conviction and children's services are getting involved? NEED ADVICE ASAP
Replies: 1
Views: 225

Re: What to do with a boyfriend with a conviction and children's services are getting involved? NEED ADVICE ASAP

The SS ruining people's lives again, just to cover their backs against any 'maybe' or false accusation whatsoever. Their arrogance beggars belief. The only criminals in this case appears to be them. How in hell are they not accountable?
by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed Feb 27, 2019 10:14 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Is this fair?
Replies: 2
Views: 331

Re: Is this fair?

If you're being assessed for one particular reason, they'll assess you on 'everything' else too for good measure, to tick their boxes. It's a catastrophe for any parent to come to the attention of social services for any reason at all, because they seem to think they have both the duty and the right...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed Feb 27, 2019 10:07 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Help
Replies: 2
Views: 223

Re: Help

'a third child was so upset crying for them to give her Daddy back'. My heart bleeds for you, your husband and the children being abused by the state's tyrannical (yet incompetent) safeguarding system. Yes, the world has gone mad. I don't know what advice to offer, because doing exactly as they say ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Tue Feb 19, 2019 8:34 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Guidelines for assessment of families and children when an adult has been viewing iioc
Replies: 3
Views: 406

Re: Guidelines for assessment of families and children when an adult has been viewing iioc

I do try not to demonize them, and I know they have a tough job to do (welcome to life), but I've just seen no evidence yet that they're going to be fair and proportionate. I came across this - it brought back memories from my schooldays when I heard about it in the news. I realise now that this (an...