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by PerfectlySafeDad
Tue Dec 31, 2019 2:10 pm
Forum: General
Topic: My husband downloaded indecent images
Replies: 60
Views: 22412

Re: My husband downloaded indecent images

'If these offenders aren't allowed to move forward in a positive way then wat is the point in allowing them to live....' A very succinct statement, runnermum. Indeed there are so many suicides in indecent images cases precisely because the offender (vast majority 'ex-offender' more accurately) feels...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Tue Dec 31, 2019 1:11 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: What to do, why are we not being left Alone?
Replies: 5
Views: 901

Re: What to do, why are we not being left Alone?

Whether there or genuine concerns or not for the children's welfare, everything about this case points to what an utter shambles the CS are and simply unfit for purpose. Their workload is so high they can't cope - but is it surprising when the protocol for intervention is so rigorous and automatic, ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sat Nov 23, 2019 6:01 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: looking for help and advice
Replies: 5
Views: 798

Re: looking for help and advice

It's 21 days while they 'work out what to do' (expect this to get shifted ad infinitum), because basically they don't yet have a clue due to hopeless under-resourcing (for which you, the service users are penalized in the form of your human rights). It's currently a box-ticking exercise, because thi...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sun Nov 10, 2019 6:24 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Partner has aniexty.
Replies: 4
Views: 575

Re: Partner has aniexty.

If they didn't have anxiety already, anybody is going to have after social services involvement. Not support, not safeguarding: Harassment, pure and simple.
by PerfectlySafeDad
Mon Sep 16, 2019 10:49 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Any advice welcome, lost and confused!
Replies: 17
Views: 2602

Re: Any advice welcome, lost and confused!

'however my partner was never charged or even arrested so I don't understand how this can follow him for so long and affect our lives so much.' Because it's a witch hunt, simple. And CS are at the vanguard of it, and absolute incompetent back-covering ***s. They care only about themselves and not th...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Tue Aug 13, 2019 3:05 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Pregnant after having children removed 7 years ago, what to expect?
Replies: 2
Views: 584

Re: Pregnant after having children removed 7 years ago, what to expect?

Stockpile every scrap of positive evidence you have that you are now in control and a responsible, healthy parent in a stable situation: Doctor's reference as to how your mental health has been for a long time and your reliability in taking medication and using other support available; similar menta...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Fri Aug 02, 2019 9:02 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: section 47 advice
Replies: 19
Views: 2117

Re: section 47 advice

As a parent who has been trampled all over by these people, well done Sajnoor! You are doing exactly the right thing by insisting on written records, dates, appropriate qualifications, even witnesses and demanding a specific explanation as to what they are investigating/concerned about. This will ma...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Tue Jul 23, 2019 10:20 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Worried about my nephew
Replies: 2
Views: 558

Re: Worried about my nephew

Difficult situation, and hard to know what to advice apart from the usual 'roll over and do everything they say', but this inevitably means being bullied and even literally signing over parental rights (if it gets to the stage of signing child protection plans etc) to the local authority. The only t...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Tue Jul 23, 2019 9:55 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: New partner on Sex offenders register
Replies: 4
Views: 926

Re: New partner on Sex offenders register

They'll be getting in touch with you for sure, because they 'have to' (their usual language). They're pathetic and have no moderation or common sense. They've had a 'referral' so they'll make sure to act on it, to cover their backs over any slightest risk they can imagine they can see. Clearly it's ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sun Jul 14, 2019 1:22 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Not allowed unsupervised access with my Grandson
Replies: 3
Views: 721

Re: Not allowed unsupervised access with my Grandson

There really should be a way to slaughter them for human rights abuses over that level of draconianism. It's wrong on so many levels: 1) you're being in effect punished for the offences of another person besides yourself (they'd deny it's 'punishment' because legally it isn't, it's 'safeguarding', b...