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by worriedmum81
Wed Nov 28, 2018 1:21 am
Forum: How FRG advisers and moderator will work on the board
Topic: Too late to discharge care order?
Replies: 3
Views: 711

Re: Too late to discharge care order?

Thank you for the advice Suzie. I've taken a few steps recently. I have requested and received all lac minutes for my children from the past 2 years which I haven't been receiving. In these minutes there are many occasions that say about my daughter being allowed hone contact and the foster carers a...
by worriedmum81
Thu Nov 08, 2018 8:13 pm
Forum: How FRG advisers and moderator will work on the board
Topic: Too late to discharge care order?
Replies: 3
Views: 711

Too late to discharge care order?

My children have been in long term foster care for 6 and a half years. My eldest son returned home to live with me 2 years ago. In the past 6 and a half years there have been so many changes. I passed an assessment for looking after my son. I passed an assessment through a different authority to be ...
by worriedmum81
Wed Apr 25, 2018 12:32 pm
Forum: General
Topic: fathers chances of contact
Replies: 10
Views: 9099

Re: fathers chances of contact

Thank you for your advice Suzie. My partner has been told an assessment of myself will start within 4 weeks. My sons own social worker has said she is not allowed to finish her assessment of my partner as he is no longer living with me. I believe the order has been extended due to his diagnosis of a...
by worriedmum81
Sat Apr 14, 2018 5:28 pm
Forum: General
Topic: fathers chances of contact
Replies: 10
Views: 9099

Re: fathers chances of contact

hi, this is just an update from the original post. My partner won his case, he now has his 2 boys at home with him full time. unfortunately part of what he had to do to het them home was to move out of our home and get his own place with them. The fight is not yet finished though. my son who now liv...
by worriedmum81
Fri Feb 16, 2018 2:26 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: change of goalposts
Replies: 6
Views: 3785

Re: change of goalposts

My eldest son returned home in October, he remains on a care plan, I requested he continues to remain on the plan as I prefer to feel he has extra support due to problems he has had in his past. It's going really well with him and I get on great with his social worker, she treats him like an adult w...
by worriedmum81
Sun Feb 11, 2018 1:12 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: change of goalposts
Replies: 6
Views: 3785

Re: change of goalposts

I had the meeting on Thursday and have come away with very mixed feelings. Less than an hour before the meeting was due to start I got a call saying I couldn't go as the foster carers had now been invited and as they hold very different opinions to myself one of them had requested I be dis-invited. ...
by worriedmum81
Tue Feb 06, 2018 9:56 am
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: change of goalposts
Replies: 6
Views: 3785

Re: change of goalposts

Thank you for your advice Suzie. I emailed my younger daughters social worker and the review officer about the special occasion contact for her birthday. She had asked if I could take her to the cinema. I got a reply that I am not getting this contact as I must have put pressure on her and that I am...
by worriedmum81
Wed Jan 17, 2018 1:01 am
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: change of goalposts
Replies: 6
Views: 3785

change of goalposts

I've got 3 children currently in long term foster care. Last year it was decided that I could start taking my children out for one to one contact on special occasions. In February I therefore took my younger daughter out to a restaurant which worked well. It was supervised "just in case" but it went...
by worriedmum81
Fri Dec 08, 2017 10:34 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: care order to a section 20
Replies: 4
Views: 2587

Re: care order to a section 20

The day my children where taken into care, i was in labour with my youngest and had a mini stroke so couldnt attend court. When the midwife phoned my solicitor on my behalf, and explained that I was being rushed to hospital my solicitor said we would have to just let them take the children and fight...
by worriedmum81
Mon Dec 04, 2017 1:17 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: care order to a section 20
Replies: 4
Views: 2587

care order to a section 20

After 5 years of my children being in care, 4 years of long term foster, and so many changes in my life, with one of my children already home full time, I would really want to discharge the care order for my children. Ive done research and it appears that social services are supposed to consider dis...