Dear Friend Yes you need a referral i cannot remember who had got to refer me but see if the person you mentioned will or an old solicitor? social worker, anyone you can. maybe if no joy with anyone see if you can get victim support or IDVA If you can. I wish i had my barrister back but i have a sol...

Dear N*** I am asking for Residence returned to me at court in may, I felt the same as you every day i'd see children or specially a little girl with her mother and it would start me crying, when he gained custody 3 years ago i spend everyday crying my eyes out for 1.5 years and especially as social...

Dear Datsura I am so glad that i have been of help to you. A couple of facebook groups are If your a member of facebook why not add me as a Also i think that these abusive men use the system and our kids to carry on with their abuse and this is called: Domestic abuse by proxy I feel for you when you...

Dear Datsura I am so so sorry that you are treated this way, the so called professionals should be ashamed of themselves it's so disgusting. I couldn't get legal aid either so i got a barrister from London free (works voluntary) you can apply online http://www.barprobono.org.uk she was so good she s...

Hi there My x gained custody by false allegations and manipulation, he gained this 3 years ago. The social won't admit its domestic abuse they are covering themselves because if they admit it the judge is going to ask why they gave my child to the abuser. So they are saying it's conflict and mutual....