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by datsura
Mon Apr 04, 2016 1:35 am
Forum: Getting your voice heard
Topic: wrongly treated by the hole system
Replies: 2
Views: 2872

Re: wrongly treated by the hole system

Hi I read you post and wants to let you know how lucky your children are in fighting for your rights to see them. You asked if anyone else has been wrongly accused and to let you know. I have. I was a victim of domestic violence for 19 years. When I left social services got involved as I struggled w...
by datsura
Sun Apr 03, 2016 10:44 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about domestic violence in your family?
Topic: Care order, Domestic abuse, Allienation, Parenting assessments
Replies: 13
Views: 12147

Re: Care order, Domestic abuse, Allienation, Parenting assessments

Hi T

Please forgive me. I have just read your post from March. Why did you change to another solicitor rather than keep the pro bona solicitor.

With love
Datsura
by datsura
Sun Apr 03, 2016 9:10 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about domestic violence in your family?
Topic: Care order, Domestic abuse, Allienation, Parenting assessments
Replies: 13
Views: 12147

Re: Care order, Domestic abuse, Allienation, Parenting assessments

Hi T I just wants to see how you are and whether you have been able to see your daughter? I am sorry I have not been in touch. I'm struggling immensely with my emotions. It has been 10 months since i last saw my child. I can't seem to get any legal aid because of my daughter's age as she is a teenag...
by datsura
Tue Mar 22, 2016 3:11 pm
Forum: Getting your voice heard
Topic: H***** children services
Replies: 3
Views: 3171

Re: H***** children services

Dear Suzie

I can't find the other thread to the response you sent. Please advise how I can do this.

Regards
Datsura
by datsura
Sat Mar 19, 2016 3:14 pm
Forum: Getting your voice heard
Topic: H***** children services
Replies: 3
Views: 3171

H***** children services

Please cal someone advise me what I can do to see my teenage daughter. I have a disability and mental health which is caused by domestic violence spanning 20 years. My marriage was arranged and the control and violation got worse when I had my two children. I took the courage to leave 7 years ago an...
by datsura
Fri Mar 18, 2016 4:16 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about domestic violence in your family?
Topic: Care order, Domestic abuse, Allienation, Parenting assessments
Replies: 13
Views: 12147

Re: Care order, Domestic abuse, Allienation, Parenting assessments

Dear T*** I am so sorry to hear what happened yesterday and I can understand how you are feeling. I am sad that because of the horrid tenant that this has set you back. As for social worker not letting you know that does not surprise me.I am praying that in May it will be more optimistic. By you hav...
by datsura
Fri Mar 18, 2016 12:32 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about domestic violence in your family?
Topic: Care order, Domestic abuse, Allienation, Parenting assessments
Replies: 13
Views: 12147

Re: Care order, Domestic abuse, Allienation, Parenting assessments

Dear Suzie I am sorry to bother you but can I please ask your advice. I'm not sure if you have read my post but I am distressed after losing contact with my 13 year old daughter. I have not received any documentation with regards to a court order or if she has been placed on the child protection lis...
by datsura
Wed Mar 16, 2016 11:44 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about domestic violence in your family?
Topic: Care order, Domestic abuse, Allienation, Parenting assessments
Replies: 13
Views: 12147

Re: Care order, Domestic abuse, Allienation, Parenting assessments

Hi T*** I forgot to ask when will you find out if your child will be able to live with you. I wish I had the power to overturn this for you. You are right that the people who are meant to protect us and our children really do not. Please remember you are never to blame. You are innocent. It just see...
by datsura
Wed Mar 16, 2016 9:59 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about domestic violence in your family?
Topic: Care order, Domestic abuse, Allienation, Parenting assessments
Replies: 13
Views: 12147

Re: Care order, Domestic abuse, Allienation, Parenting assessments

To my dear friend I cannot thank you enough for giving up your time to correspond with me. I am grateful that you understand what I am going through. I am still afraid of him and afraid that my daughter is brainwashed into thinking I do not love her. I will keep in touch and would be grateful if you...
by datsura
Wed Mar 16, 2016 4:44 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about domestic violence in your family?
Topic: Care order, Domestic abuse, Allienation, Parenting assessments
Replies: 13
Views: 12147

Re: Care order, Domestic abuse, Allienation, Parenting assessments

hi there. I have just read your post and it touched my soul as I am going through a similar situation but cannot go to court as my daughter is 13 years old and wants to live with her father. My 18 year old son also lives with his abusive father. I came from a domestic violence relationship (arranged...