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by seekingsupport
Tue Oct 01, 2013 10:42 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Written agreements?
Replies: 8
Views: 21462

Re: Written agreements?

Hepts = he accepts.
Sorry!
by seekingsupport
Tue Oct 01, 2013 10:40 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Written agreements?
Replies: 8
Views: 21462

Re: Written agreements?

Hiya, It's difficult to say really but there are things you and him can do to help rebuild SS trust that your children would not be at risk from your ex. Ideally he needs to complete all of his courses, attend any and all contacts without fail with his child and behave appropriately throughout, and ...
by seekingsupport
Tue Oct 01, 2013 10:21 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: IRO
Replies: 2
Views: 4110

Re: IRO

Hiya, If your children are "looked after", there should be LAC Reviews every 6 months. Do you know if the meetings have gone ahead and you've just not been invited? Or have there not actually been any meetings? Are your children under a Care Order or voluntarily accommodated? As far as you...
by seekingsupport
Tue Oct 01, 2013 1:47 pm
Forum: Getting your voice heard
Topic: Problems with the Social services
Replies: 11
Views: 58331

Re: Problems with the Social services

Hiya, So sorry to hear things are no better. Regarding the solicitor - whereabouts in the country are you? I know of a couple of firms, the solicitors I am using are national too and are excellent. Your local MP could possibly help too - particularly when it comes to a lack of communication from SS ...
by seekingsupport
Tue Oct 01, 2013 1:38 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Fabricated or induced illness
Replies: 2
Views: 6595

Re: Fabricated or induced illness

Hello, So sorry you're going through this. I'm sure one of the FRG advisors will comment and give you some good advice. In the meantime though, do you have a solicitor? If not, instruct one asap and ask them to attend the conference with you. Regarding your daughter's illness, do you have a consulta...
by seekingsupport
Sat Sep 28, 2013 9:57 pm
Forum: Getting your voice heard
Topic: Problems with the Social services
Replies: 11
Views: 58331

Re: Problems with the Social services

Hello, Sorry to hear about what you're going through. My situation is a little different to yours but I know a fair bit about SS now as a result of what I am going through. Is your little one still with your grandparents under a contract of expectations? Do you have a solicitor or have you taken leg...
by seekingsupport
Thu Sep 26, 2013 5:19 pm
Forum: General/Archive
Topic: Forced adoption?
Replies: 7
Views: 12328

Re: Forced adoption?

Absolutely - in fact you should request a copy of it. Normally a Birth Plan is done after a Child Protection Conference and your wife, a social worker and your Midwife should be involved in writing it. It sounds from what you're saying like there is a concern over domestic abuse/violence? Just in vi...
by seekingsupport
Thu Sep 26, 2013 3:10 pm
Forum: General/Archive
Topic: Forced adoption?
Replies: 7
Views: 12328

Re: Forced adoption?

Are your two other children in foster care or with you? Is your solicitor going to the meeting tomorrow? I hope so. If not, don't be afraid to ask questions. The meeting will be chaired and they should make sure everything is explained thoroughly to you. Report the outcome of the meeting to your sol...
by seekingsupport
Thu Sep 26, 2013 2:16 pm
Forum: Getting your voice heard
Topic: Honestly cant see the light
Replies: 266
Views: 257121

Re: Honestly cant see the light

Hello,

Sorry I made you cry! I am just so inspired by your fight. I will pm you later today if ok? I need all the advice I can get
Xxx
by seekingsupport
Thu Sep 26, 2013 2:11 pm
Forum: General/Archive
Topic: Forced adoption?
Replies: 7
Views: 12328

Re: Forced adoption?

Hello, I have just been through this. Your newborn cannot be removed from your care without a court order is the short answer. Have SS done a Child Protection Investigation or a Pre-birth Assessment? (I would guess so if you have a Birth Protection Plan?) Was there an Initial Child Protection Confer...