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by TKH
Sun Nov 04, 2012 10:07 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Partner accused of talking online with a minor. Please help!
Replies: 15
Views: 30680

Re: Partner accused of talking online with a minor. Please h

But he is guilty. You wrote yourself that he admitted having them - just that it was a boredom thing. Wake up to what is fact.It is illegal to possess, distribute or download these images. Im sorry but the remark that your child isn't at risk is rediculous. Would you be prepared to live in an enviro...
by TKH
Sat Oct 27, 2012 4:18 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: will they take my baby?
Replies: 16
Views: 20642

Re: will they take my baby?

just briefly-his other children were removed from him AND his partners care-your children have YOU-keep up the good work, be open to any suggestions made but dont evr sign anything without careful consideration. I'm sure you have little to worry about.
by TKH
Thu Oct 25, 2012 10:43 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: will they take my baby?
Replies: 16
Views: 20642

Re: will they take my baby?

Try not to panic, honey. You have shown that you are more than capable of keeping your children top of your priorities. If the child has no contact and hes not likely to be trying to make contact with the child then there is not a concern. You have been open and honest and you have a good relationsh...
by TKH
Wed Oct 10, 2012 12:16 pm
Forum: General/Archive
Topic: psychological assessment ?
Replies: 10
Views: 43808

Re: psychological assessment ?

if you agree to a psychological assessment this can easily come back to haunt you! offer to fully engaage with any parenting classes/courses instead.
by TKH
Wed Oct 10, 2012 12:08 pm
Forum: General/Archive
Topic: Help me please I need advice
Replies: 5
Views: 15006

Re: Help me please I need advice

You have to accept that you can not go back to your husband. The environment is not good for small children your young child has already suffered - he has had to move to a refuge. Move on - make a new life for yourself and your children. Good luck.
by TKH
Wed Sep 19, 2012 11:10 am
Forum: General/Archive
Topic: unexpected visits from ss and police
Replies: 7
Views: 44736

Re: unexpected visits from ss and police

I think to fail to report a sexual abuser is to fail your children. You can not access the support thay may require and you are putting unrealistic expectations on children to keep secrets. Children need to be guided and unless they are older/teenagers it is a duty as an adult/parent to report abuse...
by TKH
Wed Sep 19, 2012 11:00 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Partner accused of talking online with a minor. Please help!
Replies: 15
Views: 30680

Re: Partner accused of talking online with a minor. Please h

There are a lot of things a parner could be accused of that could at best be based on flimsy evidence or vindictive hearsay - this however is one that is easily proven. The welfare of children both yours and any child has to be paramount I would definitely take action to keep my child away from unsu...
by TKH
Sat Sep 15, 2012 4:56 pm
Forum: Is your child being adopted?
Topic: Closed adoption for our grandson
Replies: 15
Views: 51972

Re: Closed adoption for our grandson

Have you involved your local mp ours was amazing and by sticking to the hard facts when we informed the outcome was amazing
by TKH
Tue Sep 11, 2012 2:51 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Partner accused of talking online with a minor. Please help!
Replies: 15
Views: 30680

Re: Partner accused of talking online with a minor. Please h

So sorry you are going through this. I understand that you question your partners guilt and thats fine - til you know otherwise but just a word of warning the professionals involved will take it as though hes guilty and everything you say and do must be child led ie that you will take preventative s...
by TKH
Tue Sep 11, 2012 12:22 am
Forum: Getting your voice heard
Topic: Honestly cant see the light
Replies: 266
Views: 256790

Re: Honestly cant see the light

I was told in no uncertain terms that I would not be able to hang on to any of my 6 kids.I was later told to accept a SO as a CO would be likely to be granted. The LA got neither so after 2 1/2 years they finally backed off and left us alone to do what we were trying to do beforehand. Keep at it, at...