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by SeparatedFather
Fri Jun 08, 2012 8:58 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Grandparents' contact and SS
Replies: 18
Views: 28685

Re: Grandparents' contact and SS

Hi Suzie. Last Friday there was a Child In Need meeting in which the intake SW "handed over" to the long-term team manager who will appoint a long-term SW. The night before someone hand-delivered to my home the intake SW assessment report. This contains significant untruths designed to por...
by SeparatedFather
Thu May 31, 2012 5:38 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Grandparents' contact and SS
Replies: 18
Views: 28685

Re: Grandparents' contact and SS

Yeah I did consider whether I should contact the local Police but what to say? "My child alleges that my parents hurt them" (1) Child has not disclosed that to me. (2) Police will contact CYPS (already involved with my children) and pass the case to them. (3) CYPS will take the referral as...
by SeparatedFather
Sun May 27, 2012 3:34 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Grandparents' contact and SS
Replies: 18
Views: 28685

Re: Grandparents' contact and SS

Social workers know that legal representation between ME and the children's MOTHER would not be free to me, as I'm working. Yet that is the avenue they are advising. So they are trying to drive further wedges between me and the mother, which could be harmful to the children. I thought that legal rep...
by SeparatedFather
Fri May 25, 2012 5:42 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Grandparents' contact and SS
Replies: 18
Views: 28685

Re: Grandparents' contact and SS

Possibly the child said something to the social worker who has twisted it and used it against you and your parents. There are thousands of possibilities.Possibily the younger child told the elder that granddad or grandma had clipped her or him round the ear and told mum about it. Mum then thought s...
by SeparatedFather
Wed May 23, 2012 4:30 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Grandparents' contact and SS
Replies: 18
Views: 28685

Re: Grandparents' contact and SS

Hi. Thank you for all your replies. Residency was decided in favour of the mother at family court 2 1/4 years ago based on CS recommendation and my barrister advising that Judge would not award residency to me as (a) CS had placed them in their mother's care for almost a year and (b) during the prec...
by SeparatedFather
Tue May 22, 2012 12:13 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Grandparents' contact and SS
Replies: 18
Views: 28685

Re: Grandparents' contact and SS

Hi, not sure. Originally assessed as Child In Need to allow CS frequent monitoring. Had been upped to Child Protection Plan at times, once due me stupidly leaving the children asleep in their beds for 5 minutes whilst rescuing their mother from drunkenly wandering the streets after binging at her fr...
by SeparatedFather
Sun May 20, 2012 10:40 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Grandparents' contact and SS
Replies: 18
Views: 28685

Re: Grandparents' contact and SS

Just to add, mother gave children a puppy on day of CS interview. Mother already had more pets than the tenancy allows. Youngest refused to attend contact yesterday or to see me. Afterwards (by telephone - each parent speaks on the phone any day they've not seen the children) told me had been ill. M...
by SeparatedFather
Sun May 20, 2012 10:33 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Grandparents' contact and SS
Replies: 18
Views: 28685

Grandparents' contact and SS

Hi I'm new to this site. Not sure whether this is the most appropriate forum area. My two children have been subject to SS involvement since birth due referral from SS for their mother's other children who had been placed with their father, and to her unstable mental health, self harm and alcohol (a...