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by warthhog123
Thu Dec 18, 2014 7:21 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: CBT therapy
Replies: 7
Views: 9733

Re: CBT therapy

I can not be 100% but judge and social ordered i have same assessor. whether you need a second assessment im not sure but i had to have one in order to prove i could safeguard my son and prove i had addressed past issues. xx
by warthhog123
Wed Dec 17, 2014 7:12 pm
Forum: General/Archive
Topic: HOW MUCH MORE?
Replies: 11
Views: 14799

Re: HOW MUCH MORE?

What help are you getting for yourself?? and what have social told you to change in order to have them returned??? What are the risks?? how much contact do you have currently??
by warthhog123
Wed Dec 17, 2014 7:09 pm
Forum: General/Archive
Topic: HOW MUCH MORE?
Replies: 11
Views: 14799

Re: HOW MUCH MORE?

Hi Im a little confused by your case how ever you must have signed a s20 or they could not possible remove your children unless police came and threatened a EPO. You have the right to withdraw an s20 although if children are still at risk they will go for care order. You need to stay strong but focu...
by warthhog123
Wed Dec 17, 2014 6:55 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: CBT therapy
Replies: 7
Views: 9733

Re: CBT therapy

Hi The freedom program is very good if you engage and recognize abuse. Also breaking free staying safe is another course but depends on area. Been open and honest is absolutely paramount as thats why i lost my son. Get Therapy asap but please dont take offence Therapy is bigger than keeping your chi...
by warthhog123
Tue Dec 16, 2014 2:37 pm
Forum: Getting your voice heard
Topic: Honestly cant see the light
Replies: 266
Views: 256055

Re: Honestly cant see the light

Dear warthhog, All the facts you have mentioned; list them down in chronological order from the very beginning,all about non molestation order and his breaches,threats,violence,drugs,blackmail,porridge etc.etc and that is the best way to protect yourself and your baby from danger.Stay cool and deta...
by warthhog123
Mon Dec 15, 2014 7:13 pm
Forum: Getting your voice heard
Topic: Honestly cant see the light
Replies: 266
Views: 256055

Re: Honestly cant see the light

Thank you Suzie I didnt know about having the same judge that would make all the difference as i dont think this particular would be very supportive of ex as he declared to judge that he just wanted loving relationship with his son and to be the father he should of been, he cried and begged the judg...
by warthhog123
Sat Dec 13, 2014 8:22 pm
Forum: Getting your voice heard
Topic: Honestly cant see the light
Replies: 266
Views: 256055

Re: Honestly cant see the light

Hi warthog, congratulations on your success. May I ask the therapy you engaged with, was it done by a counsellor/psychotherapist or was it a psychologist? And also how much were the sessions. I am going to undergo therapy but want to make sure I'm working with the right practitioner first because s...
by warthhog123
Fri Dec 12, 2014 11:43 am
Forum: Getting your voice heard
Topic: Honestly cant see the light
Replies: 266
Views: 256055

Re: Honestly cant see the light

Thank you re book. I have not re read through my thread and didnt think it made enough sense to compile a book from it... There are many elements of which i want to write as i feel its very closely linked my child hood and past, lack of trust, the then further lack of support and understanding about...
by warthhog123
Fri Dec 12, 2014 11:31 am
Forum: Getting your voice heard
Topic: Honestly cant see the light
Replies: 266
Views: 256055

Re: Honestly cant see the light

He is going through right channels as he tried speaking to me through his mother and i reported him and police fully warned him he will get 5 year sentence if breaches order. Since son was taken in to care he has breached 1. letters - extended sentence 2. threatening me in public on release - back i...
by warthhog123
Fri Dec 12, 2014 11:24 am
Forum: Getting your voice heard
Topic: Honestly cant see the light
Replies: 266
Views: 256055

Re: Honestly cant see the light

Hi Ange Thank you for your response. In answer to your question i was told to get a non mol order due to the severity of domestic abuse. I was given 10 minutes to decide. I felt rail roaded into it. Nut i breached it and my sons father whilst heavily pregnant came round and begged me to let him in f...