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by Murray72
Thu Mar 01, 2018 5:19 pm
Forum: General
Topic: Seeking advice Children placed with Grandparent
Replies: 2
Views: 1367

Re: Seeking advice Children placed with Grandparent

Thank You Suzie,

I will pass this information on and hope it helps.
by Murray72
Fri Feb 23, 2018 12:14 pm
Forum: General
Topic: Seeking advice Children placed with Grandparent
Replies: 2
Views: 1367

Seeking advice Children placed with Grandparent

I am seeking any helpful advice on behalf of my friend, her Grandchildren have been placed with her on an EPO due to non- accidental injuries to one of the children. The Daughter and her partner (not children's dad) are both on police bail. My friend is in shock and is holding things together well f...
by Murray72
Sat Jul 09, 2016 7:59 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: Opinions on going without contact
Replies: 1
Views: 1294

Re: Opinions on going without contact

Hi, I was in this situation and child placed in long term foster care (with no return home envisaged) in 2009, final hearing 2010. I did carry on with contact and it was difficult especially when you are feeling angry,upset and targeted by CS. I think every parent involved in these proceedings can u...
by Murray72
Wed Jul 06, 2016 2:06 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: can social services keep a case open even if cps drop it?
Replies: 9
Views: 7389

Re: can social services keep a case open even if cps drop it?

Hi, CS will do an investigation regarding any allegations made, if they decide to follow the route of court proceedings they can do a "Finding of Fact" this is like a trial in the family courts, you will have an opportunity to put your case across and fight the allegations, There is no Jur...
by Murray72
Sun Apr 24, 2016 1:33 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Should we have been warned by CS?
Replies: 1
Views: 1392

Should we have been warned by CS?

Hi, I have no involvement with CS anymore but in the past I had a lot of involvement and one of my children was removed for a long period of time. My ex husband was convicted of a number of child sex offences in 2010, we as a family have had no further involvement with him since before this time, ho...
by Murray72
Sat Mar 19, 2016 11:28 am
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: 21 weeks and no news
Replies: 4
Views: 2165

Re: 21 weeks and no news

Dear Hollz, What are the ages of the children and how do they feel about increased contact with Mum? I ask this because when my contact was reduced to 6 times a year my Child became so distressed and upset she confided in a teacher and broke down at school, this was reported at the Lac review and it...
by Murray72
Fri Mar 18, 2016 11:24 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Social Services concerned even though SOPO and SOR expired.
Replies: 4
Views: 4091

Re: Social Services concerned even though SOPO and SOR expired.

Yes this is generally the "norm" in these situations. Any resistance from either yourself or your partner to sign and stick to the agreement will be seen in a negative light by CS. And further involvement by CS will see them becoming further involved in your life. If you do sign the agreem...
by Murray72
Fri Mar 18, 2016 10:42 am
Forum: Trying to get help for your child?
Topic: Indecent images plus more.
Replies: 10
Views: 9616

Re: Indecent images plus more.

Hi Alhoward, I have been in your shoes and I would say congratulations on keeping CS input to a minimum, they obviously feel you are a protective factor and can safeguard your child, this is probably the best outcome considering the offences committed by the Father. If CS were to be further involved...
by Murray72
Fri Mar 11, 2016 12:30 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Baby's father in jail on remand advice
Replies: 11
Views: 7962

Re: Baby's father in jail on remand advice

Looplou, I would suggest that you do not go into any meeting with CS feeling angry or wound up at all, it is very easy to feel angry when you are dealing with SW and other professionals, but it can always be used against you and once you fall foul of CS it is a very hard slog to turn this around. At...
by Murray72
Wed Jan 20, 2016 9:27 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Husband was on SOR but isn't anymore - now pregnant
Replies: 6
Views: 5205

Re: Husband was on SOR but isn't anymore - now pregnant

I would try and get some advice regarding the consequences from one of the agencies that support and run sex offender courses, Lucy Faithful and in the North East the Mosaic Project, Barnados. But whilst the Police were supportive I think CS will look at it from a different angle, they have to asses...

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