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by LMBSE1971
Sun Dec 29, 2019 1:01 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Really need some help and advice
Replies: 1
Views: 702

Really need some help and advice

Have just spent a horrible christmas. My ex and I separated well over a year ago due to DV and SS involvemeent but they refuse to let go. I spent 9 months receiving `support` from a student social! Worker which was really just her interviewing me and the children every two weeks and making notes. I ...
by LMBSE1971
Mon Oct 14, 2019 12:18 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about domestic violence in your family?
Topic: Review Conference
Replies: 5
Views: 2005

Re: Review Conference

they cant see to see or own that their actions are causing me just as much misery and damage to my emotional health as anything that my ex did.
by LMBSE1971
Mon Oct 14, 2019 12:17 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about domestic violence in your family?
Topic: Review Conference
Replies: 5
Views: 2005

Re: Review Conference

Thanks Suzie, I need to find another job as I cannot manage on benefits (house, car etc to pay for and no savings, plus exH is using the situation to manipulate me by alternately spoiling the children with expensive presents and threatening to cut off support) but this has destroyed my confidence an...
by LMBSE1971
Sun Oct 06, 2019 9:20 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about domestic violence in your family?
Topic: Review Conference
Replies: 5
Views: 2005

Re: Review Conference

Thanks Suzie, the report simply stated that they felt a "further period of registration would be beneficial" to allow sustained change and ensure that I did not reunite with my husband and completed my work on freedom programme etc. There is no real evidence of continued risk, I have done all they h...
by LMBSE1971
Wed Sep 18, 2019 8:16 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about domestic violence in your family?
Topic: Review Conference
Replies: 5
Views: 2005

Review Conference

So the first review conference is coming up and the SW has made it clear that she is NOT going to allow them to be deregistered, I have now been separated for nearly a year and have done everything that they have asked of me, but she claims that I have to show I can sustain the separation. She is gi...
by LMBSE1971
Mon Aug 26, 2019 7:32 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Has anyone successfully complained?
Replies: 4
Views: 1072

Re: Has anyone successfully complained?

I want to complain, I want to get the social worker disicplined, I want compensation for the destruction of mine and my children's lives. It has been nothing but vindictive pointless and destructive.
by LMBSE1971
Thu Aug 22, 2019 9:40 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Has anyone successfully complained?
Replies: 4
Views: 1072

Has anyone successfully complained?

I was bullied out of making a stage 1 complaint (and the case was subsequently and very coincidentally escalated to Child Protection) and as such I am too afraid to make another complaint at the moment in case it it used against me. The local authority have shown a shocking lack of professionalism t...
by LMBSE1971
Tue Aug 20, 2019 5:47 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: 1 day S47 enquiry?
Replies: 3
Views: 1158

Re: 1 day S47 enquiry?

The same thing happened to me. We'd been "team around the family"/support and advice (reason being domestic violence and resultant "emotional abuse") for months. I was getting little actual support and getting a bit tired and disillusioned with the process. Next thing I know I get a phone call to sa...
by LMBSE1971
Sun Aug 04, 2019 4:40 pm
Forum: Is your child being adopted?
Topic: ages for forced adoption?
Replies: 1
Views: 1303

ages for forced adoption?

My children are almost 9 and 13. are they too old to be forcibly adopted?