I don't no what to do next

blackrose
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I don't no what to do next

Postby blackrose » Wed Aug 18, 2010 7:27 am

were do i start, going back 4 in a haft year's, all 3 of my children were sexually abused. my 2 daugther did have a counsell and they were doing very well,untill my ex was sented to 5 in ahaft yrs, children social care stop the funding for my two grils, and thats when all my family problims started. cut the long story short. its now been over 4 years, still things has got worse, my older daugther mover out when she was 16, because she did not get on with her sister, more so the very 1st counsell they had, my other daugther who 15 now at the time her school took over and got the funding for her to keep seeing counsell,I lost count how manny social workers we had over the yrs, must be well over 10. we had team 8 round the 1st yr for my son and my 15 yr old, my older daugther seam to be left out. my 15 yr old ended up try to end her life over 5 times, she ended up in a mental home were camh put her, be for all thats she was under NSPCC and she had 3 diffent worker there , even my son went to NSPCC AND he was never seam on time let lone his worker was never hardly there, so my son school help him. now my 15 yr daugther , now in foster care just for 4 week, i even put in a complant to childen social care, they came out and see me, and they amit they just dont know what to do, tehy other day my daugther s/worker ask me to think a bout more time for my dauugther in foster care, bad news for they like i said in my complant , is this what they do now, remove the problins them have the funding to put my family back to gerther.i jsut found out my son has senory, even tho i new he had somthink , but know one would listen to me, and every one put its down to the abused. how dare they, my son saw then doctor for the 2nd time at camhs and thats was a west of time, he said my had Rubarb sindron. he wanted to know more about his sister them luke, on out way out he try to shank my son hand , luke dose not like to hold hand with any one, them the doc slat my son on the bum joking, i was just shock, he even said i dont need a 2nd child with mental heath probs, and its down to educational who pick up on my son haveing senory .now iam just thinking should i just get a family Solicitors, because i fill every one let me down and we all ment to trust them is droctor s/worker etc. [:(!]
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Re: I don't no what to do next

Postby Piglets-House » Wed Aug 18, 2010 7:59 am

Hi

I have read your story and whilst it is disturbing and I empathies with you this is not the right forum for you to post on. I am sure that someone will be able to point you in the direction of another one but this is for family and friends carers who care for other peoples children and not their own.

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Re: I don't no what to do next

Postby David Roth » Wed Aug 18, 2010 9:47 am

blackrose, Piglets-House is quite correct that this forum is funded only for family and friends carers. Although it sounds as though your children and you have been through some very difficult experiences, this forum isn't the right place to discuss them.

You may find it useful to phone Family Rights Group's advice line for a discussion with one of our advisers. The number is 0808 801 0366, and you can call it Monday to Friday between 10am and 3.30pm.

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Re: I don't no what to do next

Postby blackrose » Thu Aug 19, 2010 1:02 pm

thank you for letting me no. i will give them a call

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