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Postby pongo99 » Sun Mar 14, 2010 8:16 pm

little up date solicitor waste of time he hasnt botherd contacting we as to wether he as wrote or phoned daughters solicitor
daughter tho told by we that she wasnt welcome at our home turned up yesterday( saturday )wouldnt take no for an answer she would not leave the property keept shouting through the letter box this realy upset g/c because mother couldnt come in then she started calleng hubbu a f-----g so n so so people could hear in the street we felt sorry for g/c being upset mother knew she would respond like that then the cheeky so n so had the cheek to say hubby upset g/c an she could see she was scared in her eyes
in the end we had to phone the police but she legged it before they arrived police took a statement phoned daughter gave her a warning not to attend again or she would be arrested needless to say she gave her sad event of things were is it going to end police asked for permission to notifie s/s as is the norm they say this we gave
we try to proted g/c an do what is right but all we get is greif

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Postby ied53 » Mon Mar 15, 2010 9:07 am

you can hold your head up high dear Pongo you ARE doing the right things. Your neighbours will understand. Your daughter cannot get her own way. Yes your grandaughter was upset but I'm sure you explained. She will see what you say is true and in time she will really understand. It is horrible b ut our precious charges need to see their parents true colours. They must Know we tell the truth. Mum will be banking on you giving in I am sending you cyber hugs

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Postby pongo99 » Sun Jun 27, 2010 11:06 pm

hi all havnt been on for a while just an up date

at the momment we still have residence of g/c and daughters second child is still in foster care as been since she was born daughter an her so called bf are allowed contact at centre we belive he is suposed to be going for sole carer ?? we can not get the truth out of daughter is this true or not first she tells her sister that the court as delt with her an bf as got to be assest himself
she also told her sister that bf is alledged to have hit her whilst preganant ?? then denies it we know for a fact that he as throwed her out on more than one occasion he dumped half her belongings out side our home an the other half out side our other daughters home
she also told her sister that bf is suposed to have said he will kill her if he doesnt get residence of his daughter we dont no if this is more lies or what as she say's things then denies them , hubby had to arrange for our eldest daughter to put her up nedless to say she stayed out with another bloke on the first night she was there an needles to say she went back to bf
she as threatend to burn her sister ?? also get her so called mates to get her at collage she as made threats to variouse people all are suposed to be after her
when she attends her she plays with g/c for a little while till the novalty wears off then its the usual on the phone to people she as started getting ratty at her daughter when she wont do what she wants she also still swears at her an you can see her getting angry she tells people that she doesnt drink yet brought a bottle of wine here yesterday to take back with her
she is suposed to have her own flat an claims housing benifit an council tax an dole money yet she is still living most the time with the so called bf who works she had a puppy an couldnt look after that an got we to look after it for a while acording to her sister who visited her flat she stated that there was all paper over the floor full of wee n poo an plates full of fag ends
we belive she gives the impression to people she is not with the bf she as even put this in txt's
what is worrying is yesterday she told we that she is asking to be reassest an if she gets her second daughter back she is going to put in for the child we look after an take her to live with the bf because of the things she as said an done we fear for the safety of g/c we have no contact off ss except the advice given by initial responce service of ss were do we stand if she does put in to get the r/o revoked as we belive she is making herself out to be a goody goody

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Postby pongo99 » Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:38 pm

my my hasnt time gone quick were as it gone didnt realise its been this long since been on . to let you all know how things are
we still have g/d she is 5 nealy 6 now and a hand full to say the least we still have crap from the birth mother but we try, her second daughter is out of s/s foster care an living with his parents who are going for a sgo with the backing of s/s
we recently put mother up for 5 weeks as the so called partner beat her up the police were involved and prest charges how ever whilst her daughter keept goin off with different blokes staying out all night even going an staying with the so called partner needless to say when we went to court we were informed that the charges were dropt as she had meade another statement basicaly agreeing with his version of events grrrrr now we are being threatend with s/s as she says she as concerns as to g/d and that g/d as suposed to have told her she hate living here an hates we needless to say mother had been druming things into her head and the fact we may be able to move to the coast for a fresh start an she is moaning we carnt take her and we couldnt look after her when she was a kid an we are only giving g/d what we didnt give her an the others
we have told her to go to s/s and not to come to we next time her beats her up an it will happen
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