Looking for advice
Posted: Mon Nov 06, 2017 8:33 pm
Hi i have just recently joined this forum and i am looking for advice, social services has recently placed my child on the child protection register for emotional abuse due to myself and my ex partner having many rows in the past and quite alot of police calls but this was a while ago and my daughter was not involved in these, but only that her father brought her to me and then a verbal argument took place. Anyway the believe i am not being open and honest about my relationship with the father and there is a restraining order in place with myself and him from preveous issues. I woulf like to remove the restraining order for us to be able to facilitate contact etc. As at the moment we have nobody to facilitate it. They are pushing me to go back to court as i went before and there id a court order that he sees the child every week through my mother but they are saying for this not to happen. I am happy for it to happen and my ex partner has never ever been a risk toward anyone in his life. I am just woundering if the restraining order was to be dropped if they can d anything further? And should i just allow the contact arrangement that is still in place to carry on? Any advice would be great, i feel they have punnished me as i did not tell them i was thinking of my relationship to re start with my ex even though i did not follow this through so felt no need to say anything.