Please help
Posted: Wed Aug 05, 2020 4:59 pm
I am looking to return my nephew to his mother who due to many reasons is in a much better way to provide appropriate support for her 11year old than I am.
SS say I can do this but would be concerned about me still retaining the SGO. I am happy to retain the SGO to support both mother and son in Everything such as schools etc but day to day care would be with mum mainly and as a security blanket for him. I would also still not work to be available for him at all times and attend professional school reviews, meetings etc etc. Their is no CAO in place, just as I see fit for contact etc.
Do we need to go to court or can we just do it anyway? I wouldn’t be doing this if I thought it wouldn’t work but it will do. If SS assess I strongly believe they wouldn’t find any concerns and if mum
Was to take me back to court she would win anyway as I wouldn’t contest it but support it so what is the point in dragging it out etc ?
SS say I can do this but would be concerned about me still retaining the SGO. I am happy to retain the SGO to support both mother and son in Everything such as schools etc but day to day care would be with mum mainly and as a security blanket for him. I would also still not work to be available for him at all times and attend professional school reviews, meetings etc etc. Their is no CAO in place, just as I see fit for contact etc.
Do we need to go to court or can we just do it anyway? I wouldn’t be doing this if I thought it wouldn’t work but it will do. If SS assess I strongly believe they wouldn’t find any concerns and if mum
Was to take me back to court she would win anyway as I wouldn’t contest it but support it so what is the point in dragging it out etc ?