Private arrangement with mother
Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2019 6:03 pm
Hi
Im new to the group but am hoping someone maybe able to advise me on current situation. My grandchildren came off child protection around 8 weeks ago. A week later mum had put them at risk again and were brought to me(maternal grandmother) my question is should s.s provide suoervised contact? They are on child protection again but as my daughter agreed foir them to stay with us its a private arrangement. S.s said at confrence that all her visits have to be supervised. Until 3 days ago i was able to do that but she is getting very volitile towards me and isnt being consistent which is disrupting us trying to settle the children into a routine and ofcoirse feel settled. Ive asked s.s to do the supervised vists but they are sayimg that its down to us to arrange .there is no family close enough to do it instead. Although i feel i cant have her here i still know how important it is for the children to see her. Im at a loss of what to do. S.s are supporting us applying for s.g in 6months time if she doesnt take the steps to safeguard the children. T.i.a
Im new to the group but am hoping someone maybe able to advise me on current situation. My grandchildren came off child protection around 8 weeks ago. A week later mum had put them at risk again and were brought to me(maternal grandmother) my question is should s.s provide suoervised contact? They are on child protection again but as my daughter agreed foir them to stay with us its a private arrangement. S.s said at confrence that all her visits have to be supervised. Until 3 days ago i was able to do that but she is getting very volitile towards me and isnt being consistent which is disrupting us trying to settle the children into a routine and ofcoirse feel settled. Ive asked s.s to do the supervised vists but they are sayimg that its down to us to arrange .there is no family close enough to do it instead. Although i feel i cant have her here i still know how important it is for the children to see her. Im at a loss of what to do. S.s are supporting us applying for s.g in 6months time if she doesnt take the steps to safeguard the children. T.i.a