can anyone give me any ideas of why the panel would now wont me to work with both the assessor and s/w ?

awww big hugs for you all im so pleased it went well, the waiting for court dates is the hardest thing ever, some say to me at least you see him but no one knows how hard it is till they have walked in our shoes its not enough

you will be fine kids like attention lol am sure you will loads and loads x

so happy for you, theres tears in my eyes wish i was you right now enjoy every second of contact i do its been said by contact that i take over abit as i share contact with b/p once a fortnight, b/p see g/s 3 times a week xx

i really feel for you, Ive been going through it since last august keeps getting defered for more info. i started all this to get my g/s out of care its all so frustrating. has your contact been stopped now ??

Hi ehhed1 its the most heart breaking pain ive ever known, you feel so useless. I have worked and done everything thats asked of me, even though i struggle to undestand their protacols. like keeping them 90 miles away making still hard for me to have a bond with my g/s feels like a slap in the face ...

thankyou so do we have a argument, that if i can be passed or monitored by them 90 miles away, why it be the same if they move where their family are ?

My intentions have and always will be to keep g/s out of care and safe. As i never want to go through anything like this ever ever again its broke my heart ive missed so much already of g/s growing up. the s/w is always asking what if this that and other hes puts most of it in my head and leaves me ...

OMG their minds really are negative, so by helping im seen as untrustworthy. i really hope the s/w and judge dont make them stay some where they dont want to. there neighnours are already picking on them plus only a one bed full of mould in a rubbish area full of not nice people. my son still lives ...

yes BP want to move have done even before all this happened. as no support where they live. we didnt think it would go well over the 26 weeks. from what s/w is kind of saying its looks like g/s will return but me supervising/giving support. then also said they may say GS return to BP but has to stay...