thanks for adding that link Help....I wouldn't have had a clue how to do that [:)]

<t>Even with an SGO and naming a Guardian in the event of our deaths isn't as straight forward as it seems....this is a question that I have raised previously. When we die whatever order we have dies with us which means PR would fall back to birth parents and so any potential testementary guardian c...

<t>I've often wondered about applying to the CSA..... we have an SGO for our grandson and in all the bumf it states that biological parents are still responsible financially.<br/> <br/> I know from experience from when my own children where younger that even though the CSA might take money off paren...

That's awful for a child to have to live through, well done to you for offering the help you have Aunty Lucy....nothing SS do surprises me anymore still shocks me but doesn't surprise me!

<t>I feel quite offended to have been called sad and narrow minded...especially after reading back through some of the posts and reading some of the comments you yourself have made to others!!<br/> <br/> I also find your latest comment that if they discharge the order your son can join the millions ...

<t>Even after reading all the posts here I have to admit to still being very confused!<br/> <br/> The original question was Can they force us to go for SGO? the answer to that for me is.....No one can force anyone to do anything they don't want to!<br/> <br/> However from what I have read the child ...

<t>Reading through all this the big question for me is.....which LA is it? Others who possibly live in the same area might not be being treated so well and could maybe take a few pointers from Diane in their own journey's in kinship care. We all no it is a postcode lottery as to what help any of us ...

I'm confused! Why is she fostered if Dad lives with her and has care of her...that doesn't make a great deal of sense or am I missing something?

<r>Hi David, I recieved a further reply from my MP yesterday..<br/> <br/> Dear Mrs...<br/> <br/> Further to our correspondence regarding the Family Rights Group Advice Service.<br/> <br/> As you will recall I recently wrote to the Department of Education to raise your concerns and urge the governmen...

I would suggest some sort of preparation on how family dynamics do and will change....I think for me that has been the hardest part.