<t>Most of you know my problems with the nutty Aunt, if you don't well I have PR and RO for my nephew, both his parents are dead so I'm the only one with PR, the Nutty aunt doesn't seem to like this and makes a point of going completely against me whenever she can. See my previous posts for examples...

Happy New year to everyone!
I'm so glad I found you all x

We took the dog out for a couple of hours, so I don't know or care if he showed up or not.

<t>quote:Originally posted by Help 1870<br/> <br/> <br/> Why cant you take the kids out to Mcdonalds for a treat.<br/> <br/> <br/> I could, but that feels like avoiding it to me.<br/> He's going to turn up at the door one day when we're all in and I'll have to deal with it, without upsetting the kid...

<t>Well, for once I've checked the fixtures, I now know that the nutty ones husband will be close by tomorrow watching the football, this is when he usually does one of his unannounced and ininvited visits to my house, bringing a bag of junk for my nephew.<br/> I almost wish I hadn't looked and didn...

Cheers Irene x

Thanks Old Bear, I feel like I've made progress, even if it is a tiny bit x

<t>quote:Originally posted by ied53<br/> <br/> Have A G&T and sit and wait. He is upset and can sense you are wound up. The positive moves forward you have made will not be undone in 1 weekend unless you wade in. Sit back and wait until he is ready. They probably pounced as soon as he arrived do...

<t>Grr, they send him back so wound up the first time I speak to him he bursts out crying!<br/> <br/> I'm not prying yet, just asking him if he's ok and if theres anything he wants to talk about, up to now there isn't.<br/> <br/> But apparently 'it's nothing to do with me what he asks people to buy ...

Less than half an hour before my nephew is due back home. My stomach is usually churning by now, but today I'm fine. I'm calm, prepared for their manipulation and know I can deal with it, because I know I'm right.

I'm so glad I found this forum x