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by Robin D
Sat Jan 27, 2024 7:06 pm
Forum: Assessment
Topic: Connected person assessment
Replies: 3
Views: 1072

Re: Connected person assessment

Hi Dunston. If you have the positive assessment in 'black and white' I suggest you ask your son for the contact details of the social worker at his end. You could then send a copy of the evidence through with a copy to your own LA and ask how this misinformation has happened. If that gets you no-whe...
by Robin D
Sat Jan 27, 2024 6:55 pm
Forum: Assessment
Topic: BMI in relation to SGO assessments
Replies: 2
Views: 868

Re: BMI in relation to SGO assessments

Hello and welcome here. My understanding is that the assessments for foster, adoption and special guardianship are all similar if not the same. The assessing social worker needs to consider any factors that may affect the security of the placement long term. In other words they don't want to place a...
by Robin D
Sat Jan 20, 2024 4:15 pm
Forum: Natter and chatter
Topic: Complicated situation
Replies: 4
Views: 834

Re: Complicated situation

Sadly it's all too common. We were also foster parents for many years, and in some cases, dealing with the parents was more exhausting than helping the children. However, to be honest, the most stress came from the social workers who changed every other week. I can also empathise with the parents wh...
by Robin D
Sun Jan 14, 2024 10:11 pm
Forum: Special Guardians: accessing services using the Adoption Support Fund
Topic: SGO advice
Replies: 4
Views: 599

Re: SGO advice

I would start with a phone call to the social worker or their manager. If that leaves you with no reassurance, start a formal complaint. You will find help on how to do that at https://frg.org.uk/get-help-and-advice/what/complaints/.
by Robin D
Thu Jan 11, 2024 6:31 pm
Forum: Natter and chatter
Topic: Complicated situation
Replies: 4
Views: 834

Re: Complicated situation

Hello and welcome. Under a SGO, unless the legislation has changed, the birth parent can take the matter back to court, but can only apply initially for 'leave to appeal'. To get through the first step they have to be able to demonstrate that there has been a 'significant change in circumstances'. I...
by Robin D
Thu Jan 11, 2024 6:05 pm
Forum: Special Guardians: accessing services using the Adoption Support Fund
Topic: SGO advice
Replies: 4
Views: 599

Re: SGO advice

Hello and welcome. So sorry that you lost your daughter and therefore need to be parent, rather than grandparents to the children. Suzie the FRG advisor will be along to fully answer you when she can, but my understanding is that this should all have been settled as part of the SGO hearing. Any agre...
by Robin D
Wed Jan 10, 2024 3:39 pm
Forum: General/Archive
Topic: Ending an sgo!
Replies: 6
Views: 894

Re: Ending an sgo!

Welcome to this forum. So sorry to hear a 10 year placement has broken down. We were not special guardians but had a similar situation when a placid child turned into a violent and angry teenager. It's emotionally draining. I am frankly stunned that Children's Services refuse to help as they have a ...
by Robin D
Mon Jan 08, 2024 12:40 pm
Forum: Special Guardians: accessing services using the Adoption Support Fund
Topic: No financial support
Replies: 16
Views: 2395

Re: No financial support

We found our MP very helpful in moving the apparent immovable. I would also complain to the ombudsman on the grounds that they are refusing to go to stage 2, let alone stage 3. You can do most of it online, but make sure you include the correspondence showing there refusal to go to the next stage. A...
by Robin D
Fri Dec 15, 2023 9:30 pm
Forum: Assessment
Topic: Sgo assessment being inconclusive
Replies: 2
Views: 656

Re: Sgo assessment being inconclusive

Hi Strugglingnan, and welcome. I am sure you are beside yourself with worry. To be clear I am not an advisor working for FRG, but the web site is not normally monitored over the weekend, and if I read your post correctly, when you say your grandson is bonded with you, I am assuming that you have him...
by Robin D
Wed Nov 29, 2023 4:23 pm
Forum: Legal orders
Topic: adoption
Replies: 3
Views: 633

Re: adoption

I can do no better than to copy the reply from the advisor here to a similar question 6 years ago. I don't think anything has changed in the interim. My name is Suzie, online adviser, at Family Rights Group. I see from your post that you are concerned for the little girl for whom you have a special ...