<t>Thanks LLB. I agree with you. Children do have a right to know where they come from, but the birth dad is doing this for himself and not her. Spoke to CAFCASS officer today. In Court next Friday so will update then. <br/> <br/> By the way, I've had a response from my MP about the forum - if you h...

<t>I've just sat and read through from the beginning and I think you have both made a very brave and right decision. We have an SGO and are being taken back to Court for more contact next Friday. Our little girl is 7 soon and we looked after her since age 2. It DOES unsettle our 3 birth children and...

Thank you youngagain and Piglets-House - let us just all remember WHY we were given the SGOs in the first place shall we! Youngagain, all the best for Court and thank you.

<t>Yes, have read that as well so will be asking, but whether they agree or not is another matter!! I just can't believe the law says he can do this. If the Court agree, then this will completely undermine us as SGs! So, what's the point! Fed up and do not want CAFCASS or SS in our lives again. My 1...

Make sure there is NO Contact Order granted at Court if this is applicable to your case. Kind regards.

<t>Well, yet again, we are one of those numerous families who are being taken back to Court by birth father wanting more contact! He's got legal aid and we can't afford the Court defence costs of thousands! The law needs to be changed. We have been through so much and now it starts again. Court for ...