<t>Thanks folks, really really down tonight. Judge ordered Drs report on mother as she has bi-polar, uses drink and drugs. As we are self funding we have to pay half, while she gets legal aid!! Our Solicitor thinks she will struggle to get funding for a trial as the Social Services report is very ba...

Daughter came with a Solicitor this time, and announced she's contesting Residency.Judge has ordered an independant Psychiatric Dr's report, at

Words seem very inadequate. I wish I could give you a great big hug.

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Good luck at your hearing Trapper.Let us know how you get on.

Of all the things I've lost. I miss my mind the most.

Well done Aunty Lucy. poor lad. I hope something gets sorted for him.

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<t>Firstly I will admit to being utterly uninformed regarding all/any allowance we could get? <br/> The first time we had my g/s for 9months, and received nothing.<br/> This time round ( going to court Monday for r/o ) He's been here since October, trying to think of a way to put this without upsett...

Can we all stop now? And everyone wish me luck for court on Monday please....

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<t>Oh Kate how do I answer that? before reading lots on here, I would probably have said never!!But I now have a better understanding and realise he should have contact with both of them. Last night was awful, she was very confrontational, ( I'm quite frightened of her, so my husband has to be here ...

<t>As we are going to court again next Mon, can any one help? Contact has not gone well.... with either Mum or Dad not turning up or turning up late, all logged and text messages saved. What sort of contact will they be allowed? If we get the ro, as at the moment she is now saying she is going to fi...

Good for you sue74, I hope things continue to go your way.

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