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by jeanp
Fri Nov 18, 2011 10:52 am
Forum: Contact
Topic: Can we reduce contact
Replies: 17
Views: 13322

Re: Can we reduce contact

Thank you Suzie :)
by jeanp
Thu Nov 17, 2011 10:51 am
Forum: Contact
Topic: Can we reduce contact
Replies: 17
Views: 13322

Re: Can we reduce contact

Morning everyone,, I think our next move will be a venue like a Wacky Warehouse where it doesn't matter if mum fails to turn up, at least Gd has a good time.We could then extend the contact hours but cut down on the frequency, then everyone is happy ;) . Our son (daddy) is not so much of an issue, h...
by jeanp
Wed Nov 16, 2011 2:17 pm
Forum: Contact
Topic: Can we reduce contact
Replies: 17
Views: 13322

Re: Can we reduce contact

Hi Suzy, can i just say that mum is not our daughter she is our sons ex .We have never been negative towards mum and always talk about mum in a positive way when we are chatting to Gd and if mum doesn't turn up for contact we always smooth it over by saying things such as " poor mummy, she has a poo...
by jeanp
Tue Nov 15, 2011 5:05 pm
Forum: Contact
Topic: Can we reduce contact
Replies: 17
Views: 13322

Re: Can we reduce contact

Hi Kate,, "sigh" indeed !, we never ever saw the photos because she deleted them very quickly.Her boyfriend tried to argue that she hadn't done it since until i pointed out that she hadn't been given the opportunity to do it again ! Gd mum fell for the FB thing as she is not awfully clever in that d...
by jeanp
Tue Nov 15, 2011 1:51 pm
Forum: Contact
Topic: Can we reduce contact
Replies: 17
Views: 13322

Re: Can we reduce contact

Hi kate, it's actually a godsend not knowing mums address, things have never been so peaceful :D .Gd,s behaviour has totally changed and school can,t believe the difference in her,, she is calm and concentrating much better.Gd doesn't mention not seeing mum and actually said to us (last time mum let...
by jeanp
Mon Nov 14, 2011 10:34 pm
Forum: Contact
Topic: Can we reduce contact
Replies: 17
Views: 13322

Re: Can we reduce contact

Hi Kate,, our "mum" always has illness as an excuse for missing contact, it averaged that she was missing at least one contact per month , it was either a migraine or stomach bug or a cold.She always sounded perfectly chirpy when she rang us to say she wasn,t coming !.We are lucky that we can still ...
by jeanp
Mon Nov 14, 2011 12:55 pm
Forum: Contact
Topic: Can we reduce contact
Replies: 17
Views: 13322

Re: Can we reduce contact

Thank you for your reply Robin,,I do keep copies of every communication we have with mum,i will only text her because she denies what is said in phone calls, having a text also avoids face to face arguments which mum will start in front of Gd without a second thought.We have kept a diary for the las...
by jeanp
Mon Nov 14, 2011 11:07 am
Forum: Contact
Topic: Can we reduce contact
Replies: 17
Views: 13322

Can we reduce contact

Hi everyone, just need a little bit of advice.Our gd is 71/2 and we have had residence of her since she was 3 mths old.Contact is set at 2hours a week supervised by us,mum has recently (Sept 16th) had another baby and she and her boyfriend are being assessed by SS to see if they can keep baby(are in...
by jeanp
Sun Oct 31, 2010 8:38 pm
Forum: Archive
Topic: do we take on another baby
Replies: 8
Views: 7383

Re: do we take on another baby

<t>Hi,, just cant decide what is best,im beginning to think that it would be best to keep right out of it as much as we want to consider the baby.Just had a big row because we wont support our son going for Ro of this baby,we have been accused of taking over and telling him what to do all the time a...
by jeanp
Sun Oct 31, 2010 11:46 am
Forum: Archive
Topic: do we take on another baby
Replies: 8
Views: 7383

Re: do we take on another baby

<t>Hi, thank you for your replies,,, still thinking very hard about all this,,,,we only have gd to look after and do still have some energy left[:)], we have the room, as all our children are grown up and left home.We have had gd since birth and wouldnt be without her even though she has just had a ...