I just had to share this with you! The Nutty One has actually given me a good laugh this weekend. My nephew has been to stay and she's been telling him the old family tales again. Theres one that I've heard years ago about his gggg grandad being murdered. I don't know any details and I don't think a...

<r>quote:Originally posted by mama t<br/> <br/> hi i would personally stop all contact and force her hand to take you to court for a contact order as it should be her who applys for one not you, in the mean time i would apply for prohibbited order that irene suggested as it seems more appropriate. <...

That must be so upsetting.
I don't know what I'd do, except at least get it printed if you can, they can always delete it and say it was never posted. And maybe see a different solicitor?

I've just spoken to an advisor at the NSPCC, I wasn't sure if they could help but it did help just to actually talk to someone about it!

She did try to advise, but I've already done everything she said.

Going to make an appointment with the solicitor as soon as I can.

<t>I just have to keep smiling Irene, I don't like being down and that link makes me giggle!<br/> <br/> I'm going to look into what I can do as soon as I can.<br/> There's definitely some kind of abuse going on here, I implied sexual abuse earlier but I really have no doubts that that isn't the case...

<r>I've been trying this out today [:)]<br/> <br/> I don't think it's going to work but it's fun<br/> <br/> <br/> <URL url="http://www.virtual-design.com/demos/voodoodoll/voodoo.asp?section=demo&subsection=voodoo"><LINK_TEXT text="http://www.virtual-design.com/demos/voo ... ion=voodoo">http://ww...

Can I ask for a contact order?

And if I can can I present my evidence from the last 3 years? and can I ask for restricted texts/phone calls and letters?

Can I say what I think contact should be? and why?

<t>I have no idea what action to take David.<br/> <br/> I've tried being nice and explaining to them that it's not fair on him to be put in a position where he's asked to keep secrets from me, I've sent solicitors letters saying the same thing, I've stopped contact for periods of time because of the...

<t>I wonder if the police would help me find out why a 50 odd year old man needs to sneak on the canal, meet him in secret, encourage him not to tell me, and give him money?<br/> <br/> It doesn't sound right when it's put that way does it?<br/> <br/> Had a big chat with my nephew yesterday about hon...

<t>Sorry Kate, I've been too busy to get here recently.<br/> <br/> TRhe birthday was great, we went out for Chineese as my nephew had asked, me and him and one of my other sons and my ex husband, my nephew loves that, we're a 'proper family' just out and chatting away.<br/> <br/> got back and there ...